I love him very much, but he is a lot older than me, Im 26, our relationship has lasted for 2 years by now, and he is the only man I had sex with, maybe thats partially why Im crazyly in love with him... he says he loves me, and from the very beginning he always wants to marry me...but I dont want to bcos of the age difference, and also I dont know if its bcos he loves me or he just want to find a caretaker in his age...Im asian he is western, we met when I studied PhD in his country...I tried to break up with him, but I couldnt make it, Im emotionally not strong enough to do it...I dont know why I love him so much... now Im stuck in this situation... what should I do? Is age really that important? and does he, just some ppl told me, just want to find a caretaker? that really depresses me...
2007-03-14 04:53:55 · 2 answers · asked by jing j 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you aren't able to answer those questions yet, then perhaps you don't know him well enough yet.
Continue to date and get to know him more. You should be able to answer those questions with some confidence before you even consider marrying him.
And no, age is no matter. One couple I know and am good friends with, wife is 34 husband is 66. Met at work and love each other greatly.
Get to know him better.
2007-03-14 11:55:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you and he truly love each other this should not be an issue..But if your thinking about all the what ifs---then you don't love him that much....Truly loving someone means you will walk through hell to be with them.....think about it...
2007-03-14 12:02:12 · answer #2 · answered by Dixie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋