I have a bf who wants to marry me and he is very sweet, caring, loyal, loving, honest, etc...But few days ago I met someone else as a friend and he is my age and we get along of better and I for some reason miss him alottttttttttt I think this is not right I try to not talk to him but yet I keep talking to him..I feel guilty ..Even through we r not talking anything wrong.
2007-03-14 04:51:25 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
have you ever seen the movie the wedding planner? your situation sounds exactly like it you should rent the movie its a good one! sometimes its like... even if your seeing someone you can still meet someone that puts stars in your eyes. thats what the movie is like, the woman who is a wedding planner meets this guy and they seem so perfect for eachother the chemistry is just there. the next day she meets a woman who needs help planning her wedding. she gets to be friends with this woman. then about a week later she meets the womans husband, and he turns out to be the guy she met the other night that put stars in her eyes! and the man, even though he loves his fiance, he still sees something in the wedding planner that he doesnt see in his fiance. so at the day of their wedding he realises that even though he loves his fiance, they just werent ment for eachother. and she realizes it too, so they break up at the alter and he marrys the wedding planner. it sounds confusing but i think this is exactly what your going through! seriously think you should rent the movie its great.
just follow your heart and do what feels right. but the movie will help you make a decision. so rent it, its called the wedding planner. =]
2007-03-14 04:59:29 · answer #1 · answered by christine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All i can say is that you have to follow your heart. I think that your confused right now. Dont mix the love for the like. At some point i think we all feel that but just follow the feelings that make you stronger and you will know what to do.
2007-03-14 11:55:12 · answer #2 · answered by Jaizmin P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you feel guilty because you'd like to hava an affair with that guy, wouldn't you? If you like the other guy don't marry your boyfriend becaus what is sure is that you won't be able to be faithfull in that marriage.
2007-03-14 11:57:30 · answer #3 · answered by Sissy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no harm of making new friends. I think its OK. As long as you do tell your boyfriend about it. You do miss him coz his new and you want to know more about him. You do like to talk to him coz you don't know him quite well yet. Give yourself awhile and sooner or later you know the truth about him. Then consider to continue or not the relationship.
2007-03-14 12:18:03 · answer #4 · answered by ironlady42 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should wait before getting married. After all you don't wanna end up with the wrong guy.
2007-03-14 11:55:45 · answer #5 · answered by swyt09 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because that new friend is just that NEW,, wait before taking the leap to see if you still feel the same way three months from now
2007-03-14 11:54:53 · answer #6 · answered by rich2481 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are not in love with just one man sounds like you are in love with two. you need to decided which guy you would be happy with. only you can decide which it is. No body knows youre heart like you do...
2007-03-14 11:55:47 · answer #7 · answered by furby_lost 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the man who asks may not last;
the one you lust is only just
for what you want to be real
only time will reveal
2007-03-14 12:00:17 · answer #8 · answered by Brown'n 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
... let your spirit be your guide... but remember... it;s not a joke... it involves a feeling...
2007-03-14 11:55:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋