we've been married since nov 2006 and we fight alot about bills and buying things we don't need to so my husband got pissed off and moved out now stays with his ex wife. says he's been praying and God said to move out.
2007-03-14 04:39:18 · 10 answers · asked by texasunshine56 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
we have gone to counsloring he went with me the first visit and didn't go to the second visit with me
2007-03-14 05:13:40 · update #1
OK so god told him to leave his wife with the bills an move in with his ex wife just how much of that story did you believe best thing you could do is get rid of that zero an find you a hero someone that has unconditional love for you an send the ex wife a thank you note from god
2007-03-14 10:58:07 · answer #1 · answered by buddy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your husband moved out because he wanted to, had nothing to do with God answering his prayer. First of all, counselling will not work unless both parties are willing to work at the marriage. Appears since your husband had moved in with his ex wife that he has no intention of focusing on resolving marital conflict with you. He is living with another woman, he is most likely sharing the same bed with her. How you can even consider counselling under these circumstances? Appears you got him on the rebound with his ex wife and he is rethinking of resuming a relationship with her and not with you. He is most likely the type of man that runs from one woman to another whenever there is trouble rather than staying and working out problems. I bet that is part of the reason his marriage to his ex wife had failed also. He needs to be made to decide if it is the marriage with you he wants or the ex wife. If he decides he wants to work on his marriage then it would have to be done without the ex wife in the picture no matter what excuses he gives. If not, then stop wasting your time with counselling and begin to make decisions on a divorce. Best of luck to you!
2007-03-14 13:03:59 · answer #2 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't think it really matters as to whom told him to go the point should be that he is gone and you need to figure out if this marriage is worth saving or not. If not then start divorce proceedings and if so then get into counseling and stop acting like children!
2007-03-14 11:55:09 · answer #3 · answered by WENDY G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually yes, because the first marriage is legal in God's eyes. The 2nd marriages and on are considered adultery in God's eyes. So, if this was your first marriage, you were practicing fornication. If this was your 2nd marriage, you were practicing adultery.
2007-03-14 14:00:59 · answer #4 · answered by janetrmi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he just wanted to move back to his ex and can't stand up and take the blame on himself so he has to pass the blame,it's a shame he has to pass it god. lol
2007-03-14 12:02:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
God would never do that. I agree with the other saying it is satan that would tell him that . If he is a Christian he should be talking to clergy about it. not his ex.
2007-03-14 11:53:00 · answer #6 · answered by Mary B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God would NEVER tell him to leave his marriage. That came from Satan. Your husband is justifying his move by telling you crap.
Call him on it.
2007-03-14 11:46:33 · answer #7 · answered by Stefka 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him yeah well God told you not to take his *** back. And you're listening to that. And as he can see, he's not the only one God speaks to.
2007-03-14 11:48:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your husband apparently thinks you are naive and gullible, so he is sure you will believe him when he says God talked to him.
move on with your life..... and take care of you.
2007-03-14 12:18:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
pls go for counselling.
2007-03-14 12:07:22 · answer #10 · answered by jasmine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋