I don't like living with my sister-in-law because she gives me an attitude of I don't like you, the reason why I'm respecting you is because of your mother and brother. I have to stay with her for the next 7 days. I only been in her house for one day and I want to move out.
If I tell her the things that bother me about her, I know we are going to get into arguments and I don't want that.
I want to move to my aunty's house. Sister-in-law knows I don't feel comfortable living with my aunty's house because of aunty's husband.
So, how do I tell sister-in-law that I want to move to aunty's house? If she say why? Should I lie or tell her the truth that I don't want to live in her house because she has given me the Cold shoulder?
2007-03-14 04:38:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
just try to make the best of it. try sucking up to ur sister-in-law. make her breakfast in bed, or lunch. go shopping with her. do things yall both enjoy. maybe try to talk to ur brother or mom about her, they may know things about her tht affect her attitude. just be nice to her.
2007-03-14 04:46:00 · answer #1 · answered by Lolly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some situation in our life comes like that but it doesn't matter wheather u speak lie or truth to ur sister-in-law the only thing matters is that what valuation u gives to ur sister-in-law in respect of ur relationship. so prepare ur mind and tell her truth it is not such a big thing keep smiling. or assume that anyone is somewhere to answer your problems and understand u but first of all u have to prepare ur self life is very long and be happy in all conditions from ur heart. all problems will be fly away. ok
2007-03-14 11:48:28 · answer #2 · answered by monu tripathi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you shouldn't.. she'll probably get really angry. The best thing to do is to fake it saying that you're doing something and need to move nearer to that location in that case, your aunty's house. you could go to your aunt and get her to help you (eg. lie ^-^).
Or you should just confront your sister-in-law and tell her, if she really loves you then i guess that won't be a problem.
2007-03-14 11:44:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say whats on your mind. I have a sister in law that is rude to me and I wish I would have just told her to ---- herself instead of walking on eggshells all the time. Good Luck!
2007-03-14 11:43:30 · answer #4 · answered by MDJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Deal with it for 7 days.
2007-03-14 11:41:26 · answer #5 · answered by mikey 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her you'd rather stay with your aunt. If she asks why just tell her you feel that you are being a bother to her & that it would be best for everyone if you leave.
2007-03-14 11:42:34 · answer #6 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her the truth and if u guys get in a argument then stick up to her or defened yourself
2007-03-14 11:50:00 · answer #7 · answered by pretty_sammy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No never lie. YOu should sit her down with your mother and brother and then say what you need to say.
you should talk to your family about your feelings calmly and rationally. tell them you love them. tell they you are unhappy. tell them why you are unhappy.
2007-03-14 11:43:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell it to her face! i have cousins like that and i have to go through the same **** for up to 3 months sometimes! consider yourself lucky
My father doesn't believe me though =(
2007-03-14 12:00:40 · answer #9 · answered by lil dreamer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋