2007-03-14 04:35:41 · 9 answers · asked by stephanie_lauderhill 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
I was 14 years old when i got pregnant and 15 when i had my now 6 year old son...if your friends mom is a easy gonig mom for the most part (obviously she has to be for her daughter to be carrying a child)then when her and her mom have the chance to be alone for a few minutes have her start crying (that's what i did then the mom can't be mad cuz she knows it's hard enough on her daughter as it is having to tell her that)then have her daughter start out by saying "mom i have to tell you something but you have to promise that your not going to be mad at me cuz i don't have anybody but you to help me" then have her tell her...her mom might be a little upset at first but give it a few days and she willbe glad that she can help her daughter and that she is having a grand baby... hope this helps best of luck to your friend.....
2007-03-14 04:52:14 · answer #1 · answered by Sam Fisher 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Very gently! LOL
Seriously. "your friend" needs to just come right out and tell her mom she made a big mistake and take it from there. People like to avoid the truth as long as possible sometimes out of fear but she needs to know so after the shock wears off, she can get you (I mean your friend) some help. Like deciding if she want to keep the baby, adopt him or her out or the other option that I'm not a fan of personally. In any case, your friend needs help so if she decides she wants to keep the baby, she can at the very least start taking responsability for her actions. Time will heal all wounds so just come right out with it and then take it from there. Don't waste anymore time stressing over it. Take the bull by the horns and then you will be ready to take the next step.
2007-03-14 04:59:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the baby isnt a "mistake" isnt NO baby no matter what. I believe she should tell her mother right away because shes going to have to go see a doctor and everything. Just tell you're friend to sit down with her mother and tell her its the best thing she can do, hiding the baby isnt going to be easy and she is going to start showing. Tell her to tell her mother right away.
2007-03-14 04:55:39 · answer #3 · answered by [[<3]] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her it straight. That's what I would want. No matter her reaction, do not argue. It is still up to you to decide what you want to do.
mum will have a range of emotions but at the end of the day she loves her daughter and will help her through it.
Can I just say THERE IS NO REASON FOR UNWANTED PREGNANCIES IN THIS DAY AND AGE. Is she feels mature enough to have sex, she should be mature enough to accept the consequences.
2007-03-14 05:18:22 · answer #4 · answered by Lolipop 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs to just tell her mom that she made a mistake, and then let it out gently.. She is going to be upset and mad, but that is every mom. I got pregnant when I was 16, andmy mom got angry and mad at me. but it blew over. Just tell her not to hide it from her , then it will cause more problems
2007-03-14 04:48:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she just neededs to tell her mom and when her mom calms down she will help her out i was 16 when i had my 1 son he is now 8 years old its really hard
2007-03-14 06:31:50 · answer #6 · answered by Chesney A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow...14....um jeezo peets thats sooo incredibly young!!! I think that she should just tell her flat out " mom im pregnant" and if her moms a ***** and kicks her out than ask your mom if she can stay with you guys for a while...Thats what I would do... I hope I helped!!! Good Luck to you and your friend!!!!!!
~S
2007-03-14 04:57:38 · answer #7 · answered by Confuzzled! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your friend needs to tell her mom before its to late her mom is going to be mad and hurt but more so if she hears it from someone else
2007-03-14 05:43:21 · answer #8 · answered by christie d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she should go over your house den u tell her mom and wait till her mom calms down den dey kan talk about wat they gone do!
2007-03-14 05:17:27 · answer #9 · answered by fatima 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋