it seems like when ever i get ready to leave it gets better and i talk my self in to staying . Then it gets bad . Why is change so damn hard ?
2007-03-14 04:25:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I ask myself the same thing quite often. Let me know when you find the answer.
2007-03-14 04:30:28 · answer #1 · answered by AKAdemiks 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
change is always hard u just need to know when the the time is right thats when the songs dont hurt anymore u may may be scared of what the future holds but if u are strong willed it will be ok just remeber u have friends and family that will help u just ask u r self one ? are u truly happy right now if not smile and move on life will get better
2007-03-14 04:59:01 · answer #2 · answered by demondriver 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you love the person, you want to believe that things will change and get better, even though likely they won't. I am going thru the same thing right now. I realize that I should just leave now and save myself some heartache, but I love him and I don't want to believe that the vows we shared don't mean that much to him. It's hard to dive head first into the unknown. But sometimes you will realize that once you do... life becomes much better than it was before.
2007-03-14 04:50:33 · answer #3 · answered by Nikki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fear of being alone, of making a mistake. Sometimes we think "better the devil you know" rather than taking a chance.
I would rather be happily single than in a bad relationship.
2007-03-14 04:29:11 · answer #4 · answered by True Blue Brit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
changing anything requires work on your part and the unknown
2007-03-14 04:29:56 · answer #5 · answered by sunbun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think fear of the unknown.
2007-03-14 04:42:53 · answer #6 · answered by mark my words 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fear of being alone.
2007-03-14 04:52:50 · answer #7 · answered by jasmine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋