girls wot wud u do if u were raped?

Question

and left pregnant .??.......;( feel so sad and dont wana do wot people want me 2 do

Answer 1

if this has hapened to you i am very sorry for you but i really feel that you should be discussing this with a doctor medical professional or a councellor.
and if possible speak to you mum, best friend or a female relative.
it can only be you who makes the decisions none of us know what is best for you in the long run huni .
xxx

Answer 2

i got raped and for the longest time thought i was pregnant but it turns out i wasn't. The first thing you need to do is get medical attention. Go to the doctor and make sure everything is alright. Since you were raped the person who raped you might have given you something you don't know about and it could be harmful to you and your unborn child. I know right now you feel lost and your wondering why it happened to you but despite what you think or anyone else it wasnt your fault. the next thing you need to do is find out if you wanna keep the baby or if you would lie to go with adoption. Adoption is a really good choice if you aren't ready for the baby. Some adoption agencys will even pay for all of you medical treatment, your housing, and just about everything else. I hope everything works out for you and i am so sorry that had to happen to you.

Answer 3

This is a very personal decision that only you, and you alone can really decide. We can give you all the advice here, but it's up to you. Unfortunately when you are raped, and left pregnant, sometimes your moral choices may not seem to be the right ones. Know that whatever choice you make, it is YOUR choice. When you were raped, your choice was taken away from you, take it back now.

Personally, my DH and I had a really hard time getting pregnant and were considering adoption before we had my daughter. There are many people in the world unable to have children who are ready, confident and would be amazing parents. Keep this in mind.

Answer 4

Now, if you were raped then go the police so they can do a rape kit. Then tell your parents, because you will be sad for a long time and you are going to need them so they can take you to get therapy and help you decide on what to do with the baby.

Oh, I can't help it. This is how your sentences should be:
"Girls, what would you do if you were raped and left pregnant? I feel so sad and I don't want to do what people want me to do."

Answer 5

did this happen to you?
my friends brother was a rape child .. his mom was raped by a man while jogging through the park, she was thrown in a bush and raped .. she got pregnant instantly.
she went on to have that child and that child was her world. she loves him so much.
I believe that everything in life is destin .. every child that is created has a purpose. If this happend to you .. please don't abort the baby .. I know it is hard .. but you have to realize the innocience of that child. No matter what .. you are his/her mommy. That child is living off of you .. and loves you. You are that baby's world!
If you carry the baby for 9 months and feel that you have not bonded with it whatsoever .. then you should put it up for adoption.
Just because it's a rape baby ... it's still a perfectly healthy .. perfect baby, just like all the other baby's.
There are so many couples out there that want to have children but are unable to. They would pay all your medical bills and even pay you for carrying the baby for 9 months .. there are several adoption agencies that you could look into. Everyone that adopts wants a new baby.

*Just please don't kill (abort) the baby .. it's so innocient and so dependant on you. Please look into adoption if you truly feel you don't want it.

*There is a bible verse ... "I knew you before I placed you in your mother's womb" .. that child is meant to be.

good luck to you ... God bless.

Answer 6

I'm so sorry. I can't tell you what to do, but I'll tell you what I would do. Personnaly I couldn't keep the baby, after it was born. But you could change your maind after seeing the baby. Talk to someone you can confide in about this, and then maybe look into adoption. You can even choose the right family for the child ...none of this is his/her fault. Once you find the right family, you can give the child to a couple that will love and care for him/her the way they should be.

Good Luck & Be Strong!

Answer 7

You sound like you already know what you want to do. I would go with that. The horrible experience of rape is a lifetime memory, but a baby is as well. Don't allow people to tell you what you should do - do what is best for you and your unborn baby. I hope you make the right decision.

Answer 8

Well it depends. Because its never the babys fault to have an abortion or adoption. If your not ready for a baby, then you can make whatever decision you'd like. If you want to keep the baby then thats also okay because a baby doesnt need a father to live. If this happen to you, then Im really sorry and god bless you!

Answer 9

i was raped when i was 14 and luckily i wasnt pregnant as a result i didnt have much support but hopefiully you do all i can say is you need to make sure you have a good support network before making up your mind on what to do and try to be strong i know the baby didnt ask to be there but you didnt either!!! do what you feel is better for you

Answer 10

Personally, I would never abort a child. I would have to think long and hard about whether or not to keep it or give it up for adoption though. Remember, yes the child comes half from violence and man you did not want, but also it comes half from you. The child did not ask to be conceived and it is not the child's fault.