i am very worried about it as i have heard so from frens. does it really pain a lot?
2007-03-14 04:08:26 · 9 answers · asked by assweetasiam 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Some do, some don't.
It can hurt, especially if you are very young and still developing (and by this I mean under about 17-18), and you are nervous or anxious about having sex, and not in a state of high arousal.
Ideally, you should be physically mature (at least mature enough to handle a pregnancy - pregnancy for adolescents can be very dangerous), and should be a willing participant in the lovemaking with a caring, gentle partner who will take it slow, and make sure you are totally ready for what you are doing. Then it shouldn't be too uncomfortable.
If you are too young, not ready, or your partner is too rough/fast then yes, it can be very painful.
2007-03-14 04:29:16 · answer #1 · answered by SydneyMum101 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's horrible, you bleed for weeks! The pain is unbearable! Don't do it!! Lol.Just joking.It might bleed,it might not,but it is not a lot of blood,and it does hurt somewhat, not anything you can't handle but it is a little uncomfortable.Thats why you should wait until it is with somebody you truly love and trust....like your husband.
2007-03-14 04:27:37 · answer #2 · answered by ♥It's a boy♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not necessarily, because the bleeding point HYMEN which is actually, a vascular structure might have torned out in some previous extra sexual activity like too much lower limbs stretch exercise as yoga etc, so no point to bleed any more.
2007-03-14 04:42:06 · answer #3 · answered by Asif Ali 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it doesn't happen to every girl on her first time. I didn't bleed. And yes sex your first time for a girl does hurt because the guy is pushing inside you and your really tight there. Best thing to do is try to relax your muscles.
2007-03-14 04:52:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't bleed my 1st time. It did hurt, but not as bad as I thought it would. However, I wish I would have made wiser choices back then and it would have been with someone other that who is was with.
2007-03-14 04:24:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh the pain....I had to walk bowlegged for a day. Some bleed some don't. Everyone is differnt.
2007-03-14 04:45:08 · answer #6 · answered by Ashley 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hear that you do, I didnt, but it did hurt. ALOT. And like the other comment. I really wish I would have waited till I got married.
2007-03-14 04:27:45 · answer #7 · answered by Jen L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not all the girls bleed it just depends. and ya it is painful but not that much too
2007-03-15 11:41:10 · answer #8 · answered by p-s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i bled my first time it did not hurt as much as i thought it would, it hurt my husband more than it did me i was a virgin he was not
2007-03-14 04:27:38 · answer #9 · answered by redenbargers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋