and i wanna leave,i know he feels the same,but he probably lying to himself.am sure we both don't know how to do it,should i be the first one to call?
2007-03-14 03:50:32 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Confront him. Ask him directly: Do you think we are happy together? Do you think we can make each other happy anymore? If he asked you back: "Why do you ask this?" and I more than expct him to ask so, then answer him: "I don't think we are as happy as before, I'm honestly not feeling happy, and you're dear enough to me to deserve to know this".
Remember that the short distance between 2 points is the straight line, and you don't have to be rude being straight. Best thing is to be straight forward and yet polite and nice. The sooner the better don't you agree? Otherwise your wasting your and his life, and you both are missing wonderful chances with people out there who can make you feel the happiness you both miss.
2007-03-14 03:55:35 · answer #1 · answered by RareBird 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are unhappy for most of the times of your 6 & half years but still you with him, strange! Life is short. If possible pass the rest of the life. But if you really want to leave and if you do not have social and legitemate bondining hen just say good bye.
2007-03-14 12:34:07 · answer #2 · answered by dibesic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you imagine living an unhappy life for the rest of your years? Heck no. Just make a stand, use the time you were with him as a learning experience of what not to do again and be strong. Tell him you want to call the game in and be done with it.
2007-03-14 10:55:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if your that unhappy, you should leave,, but I know its hard to leave, especially after such a long time being together,, you get comfortable with each other,,, and as long as he is not abusing you in anyway,, then try to work it out,,, best of luck
2007-03-14 11:03:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should be. If you care enough about making a positive change to ask ? here, you are the one who can do it. You have wasted a long time and you know that you need to get on with your life. Good Luck and God Bless
2007-03-14 10:55:57 · answer #5 · answered by moonrose777 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. If you are that unhappy, and know you want out, the sooner you do it and get it over with the better for all involved.
2007-03-14 10:54:00 · answer #6 · answered by bina64davis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have been unhappy for all those years then it has nothing to do with your boyfriend. It's just convenient to blame someone else for our unhappiness and faults, and we usually pick those closest to us to blame.
Do him a favor, let him go.
2007-03-14 10:54:09 · answer #7 · answered by Stefka 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you both aren't happy then spit amicably. You could remain friends. Happiness is what we all need, if you aren't happy where you are, move on
2007-03-14 11:00:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same here...
email me if you'd like, however married 5, together 10yrs...
pahmomof3@yahoo.com
if you ever need to talk
2007-03-14 10:54:25 · answer #9 · answered by momof3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speak up, it's way past time.
2007-03-14 10:56:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋