What is the best easiest way to get rid of all unwanted things in life?

Question

If somebody is abused & tortured, having disrupted childhood, who cannot find anymore unconditional love & the worst of all the person get disbelieved by the world though the person is abused and tortured repeatedly. What is the best way to get rid of all such unwanted things? Suicide?

Answer 1

to get abused repeatedly for same mistake again and again breaks the confidence of the person and eat him from inside.he loose his defence mechanism and dont feel like giving explaination for same question being asked again and again . he looses his confidence terribly bcoz they know that they are not going to be beleived and next time again they have to face this question . the best way is to avoid such situation . but some times it is very difficult to avoid such situation . it very difficult to get out of this situation unless some miracle happens and the veiws of that person regarding the cocerned person get changed.

Answer 2

For material things, we need not try to get them in the first place but in your case, suicide is not the easiest way to get rid of all unwanted things in life, not even if you feel don't like to live up to.There might be somebodyelse who still needs you, even if you think you are so long all alone. Justice is hard. It takes ages and some things and cases are hardly, badly justified. Peace may be not. For after a long battle when the war is won already so many things or lives may have been shattered and lost. Loneliness will not, for you will never be alone. Perhaps in your case, the best and easiest way is miracle, if you still believe in it. Try to pray for some luck!

Answer 3

No, suicide is not the answer, even though it may seem like it at the time. Are you a minor? If you are then tell someone, like a councilor at your school or a trusted teacher. You may think that no one cares but you'd be surprised at the results. If you're an adult then go to your local social service office or a battered women's shelter. There are 800 #'s for this kind of thing. You have got to trust Someone....life really is better than death.

Answer 4

so many of us hav said suicide is not the right answer so go for it.

ok tel m one thing yaar if u fail five times in one subject than what u do u tear that subject and run away from their or u want to give your best short so that u can tel your story to others for inspiration

so now u hav to decided you want to become an inspiration for others or not

if yes than start and change your life now give more happiness to others and make your life more beautiful and healthy

1 you can meditate

2 you can join some classes of creative activetly

3 you can help olds

4 you can feed poors

5 you can give other those things which you not get

yaar after all you hav to die one day so do some thing good for others so that you can b a role modles for other

so young man forget everything and start

best of luck from your friend

Answer 5

No I have already told you there is an answer to this problem and the answer is not suicide. There must be someone you can confide in..........someone who will help you.........I know that I am halfway around the world but I AM trying as best I can. Is there not a relative, a person connected to your mosque, a neighbour, ANYONE who can take you in and help you get out of this desparate situation?

There are people who care.

Answer 6

Fist try to change ur living environment ; if u can move to another place do it. Change of people we see gives positive attitude. If u're still studying, get close to a good teacher with whom u can share ur thoughts. I've been and being benefitted by my teachers. Have some trusted friends. Visit a nearby orphanage or school 4 differently abled which will change ur mind. Death is no solution to problems.

Answer 7

no well be honest at the age of then i decided to comit suiside then i droped it... what we dont see is that what are the wonderfull things that has happened ! for evevry one there is times when they were happy and enjoying? look for things you like and things you have enjoyed and work to achive them! you dont have to always look for people go for a pet some fish with a fish tank a puppy, even go for a play with a baby that'll do dont worry every one have to go through this but if u cross the river its a heaven out here in this world calling you to enjoy.. keep up the sprit and you'll be there at no time. take care

Answer 8

Wanting to get rid of things (parts of you) is just the other side of the coin of grasping onto things. Happiness isn't found either by grasping things or pushing them away, but by observing things as they are, recognizing that all of life is only what we perceive it to be, and letting go in your mind of all those attachments and aversions. Life will always be full of things you wish to grasp or push away, but the idea that those things have any control over you, or in fact any reality at all, is just an idea in your mind. Try to relax your mind and let go of the idea that those things have any power.

Answer 9

Suicide ? silly. try to figure out what is the main drawback which make others to abuse you or torture you.try to do something that others are not continuing the same,that is make yourself worthy of others praise. it may be difficult for you to do this .you may even get desperate to find ways in doing so.but ,have rigid motive and try to achieve the goal.try to make others feel you are having qualities and abilities which others lack.first believe yourself and your and struggle hard to get forward.suicide is so simple and nonsense.others would forget you as soon as you die.no one is without problem. if you have created any problem for yourself or had been doing any wrong to the society or yourself,stop it .try to repent and do not get bothered by others abusing and torturing.make them feel you special by your good deeds and ways of your tolerance.talk with them what they expect from you.you would understand in what way you look wrong to others.be bold.do not break,try to overcome all tides by achieving something worthy.God be with you.

Answer 10

this is when u try to seek peace for urself,by doing and meditating on positive things life has to offer u in ur suffering.situations like this are not easy to bear they are painful to the extend that u feel unloved.but this is the time to bring out ur inner hidden strenght and try to face the world and life ahead of u