Is it unhealthy/unnatural or perfectly normal? Weird? Do you have preconceptions?
I'm trying to gather opinions before I step out of the closet.
2007-03-14 03:29:29 · 22 answers · asked by Vicy 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I'm a bisexual. I just asked that question about 3 hours ago. Sometimes I feel that every ones against you. Mostly because straight people think that your gross because you have sex with the same sex. Gay people think you are gross because they think, (I'm not saying all of you but some), that bisexuals are just people who like to cheat, lie, sleep with multiple partners at a time and spread disease. This is not true. I have had a long term relationship. I have never cheated nor wanted to. Its a bit easier for a women I guess. Not sure why it should be but it just is. I don't think I will ever come out of the closet. But you being a women it might be good if you did. I'm behind you all the way. Email me and let me know what you did about that also. I'm interested. I don't talk to many bisexuals like myself.
2007-03-14 03:36:39 · answer #1 · answered by Some Random Guy 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋
It is not unnatural at all sweetie. This is part of who you are. If you are proud to be who you are and not worry about what other people think then there really isn't anything to really worry about.
Being bisexual means you are attracted to both sexes. There is absolutely nothing wrong with it at all. If other people have a problem with it then it is their issue, not yours. Just be yourself, that's the best way you can be.
I came out of the closet a long time ago as a homosexual man and it was the greatest thing that I did. I felt much better about it.
Good luck to you and have a Rainbow Day!!
Happy Pride!!
2007-03-14 03:55:32 · answer #2 · answered by Michael 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is envy an opinion? I suppose it's really more of a reaction. I'm attracted to women, but if I were attracted to men as well, that would open up all kinds of new dating options. I wouldn't want to be straight by any means because that would mean losing an essential part of myself, but keeping that attraction to women and adding men to the dating pool as well? That wouldn't bother me in the least.
I also wouldn't have any problem dating a bisexual woman. I honestly can't see what the objection is.
2007-03-14 03:59:19 · answer #3 · answered by Kate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a bisexual myself, I believe that it is perfectly natural. After I came to terms with it, that is. I was seriously in denial and homophobic before I finally admitted to myself that I was, in fact, attracted to women. That was several years ago. It is easier for us to hide our sexuality, which has its pros and cons.
The pros include: no obvious discrimination because people can't tell (unless you babble endlessly about your crush who happens to be a girl), you are attracted to both guys and girls, so you never have to question your sexuality again if you're suddenly feeling something for a guy after proclaiming yourself to be a lesbian (although having a definite sexuality is a noble thing to have).
Some cons: people can't tell if you're gay. So you generally have to make the first move unless you want to be confined to a strictly hetero lifestyle. This is happening to me right now, which is irritating.
I would definitely step out of the closet assuming you are over 18. If not, then I would wait until I was financially independent of my parents before telling the whole world.
Good luck with your decision!
2007-03-14 05:12:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
as a homosexual man, i think bisexuals are awesome. your sexuality is just another type in the big spectrum of human-human relationships. it is tougher for you guys because you have prejudices coming from both the hetero and homo communities.
Best of luck with coming out! and congrats on your decision to do so.
2007-03-14 03:48:37 · answer #5 · answered by Jnr528 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well girlfriend good luck !!
but i think that bi people are just the best cause u know we want everything
is not unhealthy is not unnatural for me is the most natural thing
yeah its perfectly normal!!
good luck friend!!!
best wishes! =)
2007-03-14 04:37:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm homosexual and bisexual seems completely normal to me. I don't put people in stereotypical boxes and I don't think anyone is weird. I mean who came up with normal and what is it actually??
2007-03-14 04:12:03 · answer #7 · answered by ☮ wickey wow wow ♀♀ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, bisexuals are definitely not attracted to the entire population simply based on the fact that no one is attracted to everyone (we wont even start with all the gendered grey areas that complicate the subject)
but to answer your question, its completed normal... i think i might be bi (havent quite done enough research though) and if thats the case im completely fine with it
2007-03-14 04:12:28 · answer #8 · answered by royalt63 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well.... in my opinion.... We're awesome!!!
=D
Bisexuals and homosexuals and heterosexuals are awesome! It doesn't depends on who you love it depends on who you are which determines how awesome you are!!
Don't let what anyone says here change your mind about who you are! Be yourself and some people here have traveled over from the religion section and SOME are bitches!
hahahaha!
=D Good Luck!
-D. Allman
2007-03-14 03:36:44 · answer #9 · answered by D.Allman 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For me , I felt unnatural, I played w/ the whole idea of it . Did a few times , I still felt wrong.Finally, My God said, what i was doing was wrong for me. He said to change my mind ,about the thoughts I had . I was healed . It's been 2 yrs. since . I don't look at anyone, male or female sexually or watch gay sex on TV. But My God sent me a man who, fulfills my every need. If you choose the come out? I hope you do well. GOD BLESS
2007-03-14 03:54:20 · answer #10 · answered by TCC Revolution 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋