Ok....i went to another school....this year!!!!
And i don't have classmates friends...it's like....they are very different than me!!!I'm trying to talk with them...but they are like not friendly....
always i am the one who starts the conversation....they don't even care for me....:( Sometimes i think i will never be friends with them!!!....Actually of all the class i have just one friend ... but no one doesn't want to be friends with her...Cause they think that she is a jerk!!! I feel sorry about her...I think she is really good person..and nice to talking with .... But she is just quite....In the previous school , i had so many friends.... they were all nice!!!And friendly....and we cared for each other!!! Here ... i don't know...it's like a horror show......I know that it is not the end of the world....and maybe you think that i'm making a drama with it
But i'm desperate , every day i am watch them...how they have fun and great time..but i don't ....it makes me feel so boring..
2007-03-14 03:02:13 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
omg, you sound exactly like I did in school :(
the truth is when your older you will realise you had a few more friends that you thought and you only need one real good friend a hell of a lot more than you need a million fake friends. stick it out and and focus on your studies, most the people who are bitches to you now will probably end up junkies well that's what ended up happening to all the popular snobs at my school, be happy with what you do.... did you know a very high percentage of celebrities were considered losers and were victimised at school, at school it "so uncool" to be different but once you become an adult, being just that tiny bit different is going to get you noticed for that job you want. anyway my point is don't worry about it you'll be better off if you worry more about your studies, I know it's hard but your 1 true friend is all you need
2007-03-14 03:16:18 · answer #1 · answered by TC 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I have never gone to another school. But I can help you. From the Primary school my classmates, especially two girls, teased me just because they considered that I'm a swot!! No one girl in my class wanted to be my friend. They were so jealous of me that they had convinced all the girls not to be friends with me. But now, I 've met a new guy, Jenny, and I believe that I -finally- have a best friend.
So, don't worry. Just believe that somewhere on Earth there is your best friend. But simply you haven't found him/her yet. Keep holding on. Maybe they are not sure about what kind of person you are. Maybe you are into quarantine. Don't try to change yourself to be friends with someone of them. Be patient. For now be friends with that person. Maybe she is your best friend. Just try to ignore them. It's the best advice I think.
2007-03-14 07:41:30 · answer #2 · answered by marymag22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
changing schools is a tough move, you are joining an already established community, and often its easy for them to overlook how much a new face is struggling. Have you tried joining some clubs at school, quite often groups that are friends in the playground separate to go to clubs, they have different interests, so this would be a good opportunity for you to meet friends with similar interests to you when they are not all together in their groups. its not easy but you will have to put yourself out there and prepare to percivere, once they get to know you, you will have friends in no time, good luck to you
2007-03-14 03:10:29 · answer #3 · answered by ♠ Merlin ♠ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well they wont be friendly to you unless if you was friendly with them from the 1st place .. I've been throw this when i was in high school but i went throw it yeah .. cause i was kinda easy in dealing with them .. just try your best to show them that you actually care about them and you more a team member than just a student .. and I'm sure they\ll be happy to have you as a friend :) .. cause as we all know every body is looking forward to meet a new friend
2007-03-14 04:11:55 · answer #4 · answered by simsim s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jesus is the best friend anyone could ever have, and he definitely CARES for you! (more than any mere human ever could).
The question, then:
Is he YOUR friend? (see John, Chapter 3, in the Bible/KJV)
If not, it is not because he hasn't tried (or wanted) to be, but that he is waiting for you to call upon him to save you. Once he becomes your Savior, he can then be the best friend you have, and not only that, but he knows many others (girls, like you) who are looking for a friend, just as you are, and he can (and will) direct you to them/bring them to you, if you will only ask, in prayer.
The final answer (after reading John 3) is Romans, Chapter 10.
As the old song says, "What A Friend We Have in Jesus."
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hymns
http://www.hymnsite.com/lyrics/umh526.sht
2007-03-14 03:17:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well your the new girl it will take time they have already formed there little cliques and it is sometimes hard to get in them. School can be a tough time I remember being in school and moving and having no friends at first give it time and you will make friends. Anyway you dont need friends like that anyway.
when you get a little older you will realize there not worth it any way.
2007-03-14 03:06:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
trust me i have the same problem, since i switched schools this year, my new class mates pretend i dont exist.This is what i did:
every day during recess or after school i go off by myself and leave my new friend(s) behind. during this "alone time" i take the time to remember all my friends back in my old school, how they treat me, their smile and how they treat me. i do this every day, and it makes me happy. once in a while i go home and contact my old friends and ask them how are they doing. Somestimes i even make plans to go to a new tuition with 1 or 2 of old class mates to have some quality time together!!!
I HOPE I HELPED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-14 03:36:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
are u in highschool the same thing happened to me. u cant do anything about it. you cant change ppl. you can only change urself and if youre happy with u, dont change. so what if u have only one friend...at least she is loyal to you and a good i mean REAL GOOD friend is hard to find. you maybe can try to transfer somewhere else, that is what i did it was sooo much better. good luck!
2007-03-14 03:06:23 · answer #8 · answered by sugarpie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what i figured out is that you don't need friends to survive all my friends that i went to middle school with i don't even talk to now that i'm in high school my dad is my best friend. so you should keep contact with your old friend and don't drop them. you can't make someone like you so just leave it alone a chill by urself. **** you don't need people to kick it....
2007-03-14 03:08:09 · answer #9 · answered by cookie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your just one of those people that is naturally good hearted. An "old soul" that people aren't used to these days sadly enough. Don't change who you are for them. Just continue being yourself no matter what.
2007-03-14 03:07:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋