Don't they feel any guilt at all and put an end to these stupidity?
What happen to their marriage vows?
2007-03-14 02:40:53 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I don't think really that marriage has anything to do with it you know? I think people who are in relationships tend to cheat on one another. As far as their vows, I don't think they will have that much meaning to them if someone commits adultery, you know? I have friends whom the husband cheated on her and she found out, they are still together, they've talked about renewing their vows; he's serious about it, she wants to be but won't do it, but wants everyone to feel sorry for her that she won't..?
2007-03-14 02:47:11 · answer #1 · answered by suzlaa1971 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think men in general are prone to adultery, although at least 75% of men will cheat at once in their lives, as compared to only 35% of women will cheat. I watch many documentaries on this subject and "scientists" say that men are programmed to be with more than one woman in order to make as many babies as they can. Something about the cave man days or some crap, that I don't believe. I think it's the man himself, how he was raised, what his values and morals are, and the reasons he got married. There are just so many factors that determine why a spouse cheats, but no matter what the reason, it's still just wrong.
2007-03-14 02:47:37 · answer #2 · answered by bina64davis 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, that thinking is faulty. To become adulterous is a choice. Nature or the devil did not make anyone do anything. If a man cheats he has made a conscious choice. There is a moment where he can choose to either honor the commitment he's made to his wife, or decide to ruin that with what could very well be a momentary pay off - not really worth when put on the scales, I think.
2007-03-14 02:49:04 · answer #3 · answered by Dino 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love your wife and understand how important it is to be a good husband to her; and realize that your marriage isn't about you; and understand that marriage is a way for God's blessing to flow into your life; and marriage is a way to bless your children; you will understand what's at stake....so does Satan, so he will pull out all the stops to try and destroy your marriage. Adultery is the easiest. Because most men did not practice premarital sex, the control will not be there after marriage just because vows were exchanged. So yeah, I think you are right to a point.
2007-03-14 02:48:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's an individual thing. Some men are prone some are not, I think it is cultural too as in some cultures are not as negative about it as others. If a man is raised to have proper respect for women the they don't cheat. If they are raised to do as they like when they like then in my opinion they are more prone to it. Also let's not forget about the few who just have a horrid marriage and want out.
2007-03-14 02:46:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
statistically women tend to get wandering eyes and panties more then men.
The vows still exist, but guilt, shame and resentment consumes the relationship, it goes down in flames.
I totally agree with Mike cheating for the most part with men is related to sex, whereas woman cheat because of unhappiness in the relationship.
Often it's case of which came first the chicken or the egg. Her or Him?
2007-03-14 02:52:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't believe men by nature are prone towards adultery, i think it has alot more to do with ones belief system, and character. i do not feel they feel guilt, because they have no conscience, and don't really care about the feelings of others.
2007-03-14 03:00:06 · answer #7 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some men like the idea of love, but can't truly committ. They are cowards, if you ask me. The one you love will NEVER BE PERFECT! As long as you trust one another and communicate and support and respect one another, then there shouldn't be any doubts. Why marry if you don't think you can be loyal? Why would you do that to another person? I just don't understand people who cheat.
2007-03-14 02:53:10 · answer #8 · answered by inlovewow 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A man's happiness is tied to sex. if a man is unhappy, he'll look for sex. If a man gets no sex, he becomes unhappy. Its a neverending cycle. Women cheat, too, when they're unhappy. Their unhappiness can be tied though to a multitude of different factors and is difficult to figure out; thats why its so easy to 1) figure out guys and 2) know when they cheat.
2007-03-14 02:50:51 · answer #9 · answered by Mike 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it really hurts the person who is betraye dmaking them wonder why they even had vows in the 1st place. It can take forever to get over. my husband i know cheated 2 year sago. he still doesnt admitt it he just makes up other stories and it still hurts like it happened today. i dont know ho wto get him to tell th etruth and im so hurt. everyday i think about it and say something smart about it and then we argue. i dont want to but cant help it.
2007-03-14 03:00:52 · answer #10 · answered by Mrs.Vick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋