Should I kick the wife out??

Question

of bed......... it is 1.30 pm and the lazy cow is still in bed .
I have got the kids off to school done the washing ironing cleaning and prepared the dinner for later .
This is the 3rd time this week??

Answer 1

check her pulse. :)

Answer 2

Can I marry you?? Seriously, is she not feeling well? Does she work and is tired? Is she depressed? It is nice of you to do those things a couple times a week, but you need to find out what is going on with her. Hopefully it is not something serious. But I bet you she is depressed, because her husband is online calling her a lazy cow. Sometimes depression makes a woman overwhelmed and she can't seem to get out of bed. It is a medical condition and she should see her doctor, and if you guys are having problems because of this, you need to seek counseling. It doesn't go away without help. But know she can't help it, and it is not her fault.

Answer 3

Only if she's making this a habit. I wish I had someone to get the kids off to school and everything a few days a week. Some of us don't ever get a break though. If she doesn't usually do this, let her rest. And good for you for helping out. I wish I could go to bed and sleep for a week.

Answer 4

If she does not have a legitimate reason for sleeping the day away, I would sit her down and talk to her to find out what is going on. It is very easy to get into a slump and by you doing everything you are enabling her. If she is not sick or depressed then she is just plain lazy and you need to communicate with her that it is not fair that you do all the household chores.

Answer 5

she sounds like she needs a kick up the back side she is meant to be a mother not some idle lazy slob she aint 12 year old id do more than kick her out a bed dont clean 4 her cook for her or anything for her till she learns good luck x

Answer 6

Wow 1.30 & still in bed what a lazy woman you are married to, unless of coarse she has come off a night shift, is sick or has been up all night with the baby. If none of the following, then yes, kick her out of bed!! You poor man

Answer 7

First ask her if she is depressed or ill. If this is not normal for her there could be a problem.
If this is an ongoing problem....run for the hills it will only get worse. My boyfreind is divoced from a woman that for 8 years had him working 2 jobs, caring for the children, cleaning the house, cooking and hating her more each day.

Answer 8

I used to stay in bed till 2 or 3 on weekend... husband was pissed, but I was very very depressed.

Something is wrong.. be loving and attentive. Ask her what is wrong and try to read between lines. She may not tell you, but be persistant with caring and loving. She will let you know. I would say that she is depressed because maybe something is wrong with the marriage. Help her before things get worse.

Answer 9

ever thought that she might not be lazy, but could be either ill or depressed ? find out the reasons behind this behaviour before assuming that she's just lazy. if she's been crying a lot, or not bothering to look after herself, then i would err on the side of depression. if that's the case, get her to a doctor who has a good reputation of dealing with depression & anxiety. by the way, calling her a lazy cow will not help her at all.

Answer 10

Well, is the "lazy cow" sick? Maybe she is depressed. I would be too if I had a husband that called me a lazy cow.

You need to try to figure out why the "lazy cow" is still in bed before you start thinking about kicking her out!

Answer 11

First--good for you for being able to handle the household on your own.
Second--find out what is wrong with her--she may be depressed or something.
Third--three times this week--start worrying if it is three weeks in a row.
Fourth--if you have tried all of the above and there is still no repsonse--give her some sex and then kick her out of bed. (But not the two minute wonder sex--the complete deal--maybe she is feeling neglected or unattractive.)
If she makes this a habit--then kick her out.