I been with him five years and think about having sex with other lads. I wasn't too bothered cuz I think but don't touch, but our sex life has gone down hill cuz I don't want to do it with him. I do love him though I live with him and he is the father of my 2 year old son
2007-03-14 02:36:13 · 23 answers · asked by wildteddybear07 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
just go for it! dont worry about all that, he'l forgive you anyway!!
good luck
2007-03-14 02:39:53 · answer #1 · answered by Notre1Dame 2 · 0⤊ 5⤋
You maybe a little depressed cause your 2 year old is running you ragged and you feel completely warn out all the time to bother with sex. Get someone to have your son for a couple of nights and get to know your partner again.
2007-03-14 09:52:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though I am only nineteen years old, it has been my experience that brought me to this answer. People do get bored and wanting a new experience. Studies have proved that people who are with someone of the opposite sex alot tend to be attracted to them, even if they are commited to someone and still are in love with their significant other. My suggestion, try and do more fun stuff together, just the two of you, see if you can get a babysitter. Just talk, have fun, being with each other more. That wild side of you might die down and wanting your man. And to bluntly answer your question, no, it isn't ok to have sex other than your partner if your married. you made a commitment.
2007-03-14 10:26:31 · answer #3 · answered by jeremy_gawenda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not perhaps ok to think about having sex with someone else if you are involved with someone already. I think that you need to be open with your mate and let him know what you want or for that matter let him know what you see in the other guy that that you don't see in him. You could also try sex therapy or go on a couples retreat to revamp your sex life a bit. If those things don't work perhaps you might have lost interest in your guy.
2007-03-14 09:42:52 · answer #4 · answered by divadsd04 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I say no 5 years is to long to risk something like that. Maybe you should think of ways to spice up your sex life then talk to him about it or just try it on him when you guys are together. If that doesn't work tell him how you feel and then see if you guys can come to a solution TOGETHER. Communication is the key to everlasting happiness.
2007-03-14 09:47:27 · answer #5 · answered by cthorne8222 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why would you think of that, if he caught you, you would regret it all the way. Not to mention you might have the other guy comeing on to you thinking that it is a serious reltion.
I would say no and you have a 2 year old son, what message would you be sending him.
2007-03-14 12:55:14 · answer #6 · answered by dancerboytd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like you've fallen out of love with him, well you love him but your not IN loe with him which is important for any relationship. Can't you try and put the life back into your realationship before you think of going elsewhere, like trying new things etc. Think about how you'd feel if the tables were turned and you found out your partner was cheating on you, heartbreaking isn't it? and be prepared to lose him if he ever finds out that you have cheated.....good luck
2007-03-14 10:07:27 · answer #7 · answered by sausagejockey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can look but dont touch!!!When or before you have sex, just think of how much yuo love him, then the interest of doing it with him will become better. Or just try something new in the bedroom. Try some drunken sex and then laugh about it in the morning.
2007-03-14 09:41:01 · answer #8 · answered by Onique 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with fantasizing about sex with someone else as long as that is all it is. There is nothing wrong in sometimes pretending you partner is someone else whilst making love if that spices up your love life. But if you are genuinely off your partner and no longer find him attractive and always have to pretend hes someone else to get your kicks, then he deserves better, and I suggest you pack him up so he can find soneone who genuinely loves him.
2007-03-14 11:56:59 · answer #9 · answered by bri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is ok to fantasize about other people just once you dont go after them. If your sex life is going down hill why not make suggestions to spice things up.
2007-03-14 09:43:49 · answer #10 · answered by Ms Dee 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you mean fantasise about someone while having sex with your partner a lot of people do that but if you mean being unfaithful ...finish the relationship first .It's not worth the risk or the consequences
2007-03-14 09:43:07 · answer #11 · answered by londonletch 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋