Why does everyone seem so concerned about the size of the male anatomy or female chest?

Question

I mean if two people care about each other enough, what does it really mean?

Answer 1

It's the way our society is nowadays unfortunately. Too many people get caught up in physical attraction instead of getting to know what the person is like.

Answer 2

Those are two utterly different questions.

Straight and bi men are attracted by a woman's secondary sexual characteristics. Only a few are visible. Hips/butt and breasts outlines trigger these and a guy get's pleasure from seeing them, even if covered in a few layers of fabric. Unfortunately, for many small chested women, larger breasts are more noticeable.

You will find men tend to have areas they are more attracted to. I tend to be attracted to smaller breasts and larger rears.

With the male anatomy, I suspect there is less a concern in women about the size, than insecurity about it in men. Gay men seem to be more concerned with size than most women I've met.

When it comes to people caring each other, that's an emotional attraction. While physical attraction is nice too, for me, the emotional attraction trumps physical everytime.

Answer 3

Well, it is all about function and ease of continuing the race. As you have implied, the fact that some people in some countries / societies become all giggly and guffaw-y about it is a matter of some concern!!

I think that some people are taught to adopt those attitudes rather than take it all naturally.

And ~~ don't forget~~ it is big business!!!
for example:
Film makers
Photographers
Sex purveyors
Clothes manufacturers (esp. designers)
The churches which are busy trying to save us from it all
and ~~
The government which gets revenue from it all!!!!

The idea is to replace it all with something that is more natural
that brings in revenue at the same time! I'm sure it can be done.

Answer 4

People are so into the physical now days that they don't look at the person in general. My step daughter is an example, if she meets a nice guy who is funny, good to her, has a good job, she will not stay with him because he does not meet her standards looks wise or physically i.e. muscles She has let some good ones go.

Answer 5

If you don't have a big dick, you simply don't know any better.

Sure your significant other is going to love you regardless of size but if she ever had the opportunity to let someone with some real machinery get behind her, she'd realise the potential of the situation real fast.

Answer 6

There is a real difference between love and lunch

Answer 7

the real deal

Answer 8

insecurity