2007-03-14 02:24:33 · 9 answers · asked by jsjmlj 5 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
Hey jsjmlj,
The first most important part is RESPECT. My objective is to treat you with RESPECT first. If you reciprocate, then the pattern continues. We can disagree, but we can also discuss intelligently. If you disrespect me, I might give you another shot, you know, turn the other cheek. But that is it. After that if you Disrespect me again, we are done.
Respect is treating other people they way you want to be treated. The golden rule, and every major form of religion has this at the core of their religion.
2007-03-14 02:33:10 · answer #1 · answered by BuyTheSeaProperty 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A long time ago I thought that love was something that you reserved for some special set of people that you had judged worthy of it.
After a while I got to thinking about what Jesus had said about turning the other cheek and loving our neighbor I put the two together and realized that he had made no exceptions in these statements. It became obvious to me that he intended that we exclude no one from the love that we are supposed to be giving. I started thinking about my idea of love and suddenly realized that I had not been loving anyone at all. I had simply been judging everyone and every thing.
Judging someone worthy of love is not love, it is only judgment. I actually started to cry when I realized this. I saw just how much of my life I had wasted being judgmental, thinking of myself as a Christian, when I was actually doing just the opposite of what Jesus had asked us to do.
I thought about the verse judge not lest ye be judged, and I understood it for the first time.
I realized that I have a lot of catching up to do. So many opportunities were wasted. I now try to apply the love that I have for the world in a universal way like Jesus asks us to do.
If I start to feel afraid and think that I see someone that I should not love because of something I have thought or heard I try to catch my mistake as soon as possible. I tell myself that I have forgot the truth and have fallen for the same old trick that had cost me so many opportunities to be loving in the past. The horror of this realization is often all that is necessary to bring me back to my senses and make me drop the judgmental nonsense I was thinking.
I still have a lot to learn about love, but at least I’m making progress.
Love and blessings
Your brother
don
2007-03-14 09:30:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My 3 golden rules when dealing with others:
1. Emotional independence begins with the development of inner resources
2. The only person you can change is yourself
3. What you feel doesn't matter as much as what you do with it
2007-03-14 09:30:11 · answer #3 · answered by Biqo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe in the dignity others, no matter what their station in life.
I believe that their many things I can not change, so why rail against the tide.
I believe humor is the best coping skill you can acquire.
2007-03-14 09:36:11 · answer #4 · answered by mediahoney 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
poop floats either we are up top with the other poops or we are below the other poops either why we are all stuck in the bowl of life together
2007-03-14 11:12:53 · answer #5 · answered by henryredwons 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do the best I can in everything...keep the faith...never give up...take short breaks along life's path. worry less...love more.
k i s s
2007-03-14 09:33:56 · answer #6 · answered by Veevee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Today is a tomorrow of yesterday.
2007-03-14 11:57:59 · answer #7 · answered by J Doe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Empathy, humility and honesty,,,
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2007-03-14 11:21:34 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be HAPPY and make others HAPPY .
2007-03-14 09:42:43 · answer #9 · answered by subra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋