After nearly 24 years of marriage I was always skinny and my wife said size wasn't an issue now i have gained wieght she says i should lose it....
Why would she changer her mind and now think size matters??
2007-03-14 02:11:50 · 33 answers · asked by londonletch 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
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2007-03-14 02:19:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
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2016-10-02 02:33:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The term size doesn`t matter is usually used for other parts so as long as that still works ok. Everyone gains weight if there not careful maybe you wife wants you to take care of your self
2007-03-14 02:19:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
How much weight have you gained? Is it muscle mass or just, sorry about this, fat? Size really doesnt matter, but if you are gaining fat, not only is it unhealthy for you, but also unattractive. Talk to her about what has changed her mind, if she is a normal woman shouldnt be a problem getting an answer from her. Good luck
2007-03-14 02:16:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You gained all that weight in your _______!!!!! When we say size doesn't matter we ar referring to a specific body part. Seriously though, perhaps she wants you to live another 24 years because you are so wonderful that she cant bear to think of life without you sooooooo she just wants you healthy. Also, if you were skinny that was a lot easier on her back during love making than the new "supersized" you. Good luck -k-
2007-03-14 02:35:52 · answer #5 · answered by kbama 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I agree with everyone else she is probably just worried about your health, she only wants the best for you. Also shes probably so used to seeing you skinny its a shock for her, but that doesnt neccesarily mean she doesnt find u attractive anymore. I'm sure she loves you very much and only wants whats best for you. If its upsetting you sit down and talk to her, tell her how you feel, i'm sure she'll be very understanding.
2007-03-14 02:21:36 · answer #6 · answered by vickyvixen84 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess it depends on how much weight you have gained. She may also be looking out for your health. Too much weight gain can lead to health issues. After 24 years I can only imagine that she is doing it for you.
2007-03-14 02:36:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Maybe she's concerned about your health, or maybe she just got used to you being skinny after 24 years and wishes you would stay that way.
2007-03-14 02:15:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
She married a thin man. She likes thin. More than likely you had a thing about being skinny. And she tried to assure you that it didn't matter to her to make you feel better. That's is a bit of a lie. But not one to get all upset about!
2007-03-14 02:15:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No; she wasn't lying.
Health matters; and with the obesity pandemic these days it's not a suprise that she's worrying.
If she's just telling you that you should lose weight but doesn't say anything about your eating habits (if they're unhealthy) then it's not your health she's worried about. or maybe it is but she doesn't want to be too pushy!!!
2007-03-14 02:16:42 · answer #10 · answered by thepenpal 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Feel lucky that she's referring to the size of your waist line and not the size of your........well you know. Sounds like she is concerned about your health. How much weight have you gained that it suddenly concerns her?
2007-03-14 02:23:15 · answer #11 · answered by Kimmy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋