Every so often I get that way.
2007-03-14 02:09:00 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Its very easy to take the ones we love for granted. I don't know anyone that hasn't done it at some point.We would all love to believe that they will always just be. Unfortunately most of the time it takes losing someone we love to remind us that there is no promas of another day.When I lost my Grandpa a few years back I decided that I was going to love like everyday was my last.I don't ever want to have to ask myself did I love him enough?We only have one shot after they're gone they're gone.This doesn't only apply to death you gotta let your family know that you appreciate them,and that you see all the things they do for you.
2007-03-14 02:26:14 · answer #1 · answered by goodgirl5567 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think everyone gets to that point in a relationship. My usband and I learned the hard way what can happen in that situation (an affair he had when he was working hundreds of miles from home) It was a wake up call for the both of us. We have reconciled and our marrige is on a completely different level. We no longer take ANYTHING for granted, sh*t happens and it can be taken away. We now take time for ourselves and take care of each other physically and emotionally. Our kids are still our life...but we also make time in our life for us and our marriage.
2007-03-14 09:15:41 · answer #2 · answered by Nothing but the truth...!! 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
At times i think we all are guilty of this one... This is why you need to be thankful for what they do for you and not just take it or them for granted. Love them every day and realize just how good you have it. We need to be greatful and loving and not take anyone or anything for granted in life because we could loose them at any moment and then we would not have them anymore. I try not to take him for granted but we are all human and make that mistake at times. We need to all learn not to do this and to love and treasure each other and live each day to the fullest and treat each other the way we would if we knew it was our last day that we would ever see them again. Great question by the way! This one makes me think. I love the ones that challenge my brain and my heart that make me think.
2007-03-14 09:49:45 · answer #3 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do ever so often, but I try so hard not to. I know how it feels, so I go out of my way at least a few times a week to make him feel extra special whether it be his favorite meal, a back massage, or making a sappy toast to him complete with champagne. Yes, I really do all these things, but so does my guy on occasion.
2007-03-14 09:33:13 · answer #4 · answered by GirlinNB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I NEVER take my husband for granted!!! He is in the army, has to go do PT before I even think about getting up, works ALL DAY, and I get to stay home and take care of kids and keep the home taken care of. I make my husband coffee, set out his clothes every day, iron his clothes, take his boots off every day and massage his (VERY FUNKY) feet. I take good care of him and he takes good care of me. He has deployed twice since we have been together and about to deploy a 3rd time soon...his 2nd trip to Iraq. He sacrifices SO much for his family and I could NEVER take him for granted!!!!!
2007-03-14 09:50:55 · answer #5 · answered by an88mikewife 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I have had that done to me. He used to take me for granted so badly. I ended up having an affair - I know its no excuse but I felt so unappreciated and the guy I was seeing was so loving and I just lapped it up. Anyhow things are back on track now and he has changed his tune. It turned our lives upside down for quite a while and I do feel like a part of my heart is missing so please be careful and dont do the same mistake my husband did to me!!
2007-03-14 09:20:52 · answer #6 · answered by cat1967 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, but not in a negative way.
After many years together, we both sort of "take each other for granted," in the sense that we have come to have a certain level of expectation with regard to love, emotional maturity, common sense, etc.
2007-03-14 09:39:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the begining not now. He has proven his self to me more than enough times. Dont take for granted or you will end up losing.
2007-03-14 09:13:47 · answer #8 · answered by prizelady88 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I am not...but I do think everyone gets that way every once in awhile...work on it.
If you catch yourself doing it, apologize and keep working to not take them for granted.
be cool...
2007-03-14 09:12:56 · answer #9 · answered by CC Babydoll 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, never. Yeah, well guys do that more than women...
2007-03-14 11:01:39 · answer #10 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋