2007-03-14 01:32:51 · 24 answers · asked by Lady M 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My husband and I have been married for two and a half years. So while deployments do get in the way of our daily love making, we make love every day. EVERY day. And it wont ever decrease. It may have to take a hiatus because the Army says he has to go somewhere (deployments, schools, trainups), but wont ever decrease.
It doesnt have to be true that you have less sex after marriage. Couples have to WORK at keeping that spark alive. HE has to do things outside of the bedroom to make her happy (help her around the house, be affectionate with hugs and kisses when it isnt leading to sex, cuddle, etc), and she has to give in to his needs and desires too. My husband and I have an AWESOME relationship, and it is because we work at it. Do it even when you dont feel up to it, when sleep or reading a good book sounds SO much better. And making love ends up being a wonderful experience and the book just kind of fades away. Not only will it feel good in the moment, but it will keep the interest of your spouse. Remember, he desires you, and you have to encourage that or it will die. Sex IS important! It is VITAL!! So dont let other priorities get in between you and your spouse.
2007-03-14 01:45:49 · answer #1 · answered by an88mikewife 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually when a couple gets married there sex life slows,because there are so many other things going on in their life now.My sex life went from 6-7 times a week to maybe 2 times a week,only because with kids and work,you can't really find the time anymore or either your just to tired.
2007-03-14 01:42:49 · answer #2 · answered by leoslady3900 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It depends on what time frame you are talking about. For the first year or so we had lots and lots of sex. Then it started to slow down. At times it would pick up and then slow down. Overall though the sex is great even if it isn't as often as I want. :) I've been married 12 years.
2007-03-14 02:05:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Complex question. In my first marriage(not a happy one) I had more sex before the vows and I realised that I didn't like this person.
With my husband now...We have more sex post marriage and can't get enough of each other. However the reason is that we are very comparable and are very happy together.
2007-03-14 04:23:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems like the longer people are married, it gets less and less sex.. how about your sex life??
2007-03-14 01:37:06 · answer #5 · answered by wongfiehung2003 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
more of course, and it is quite more fulfilling, getting to know each other inside and out, you're more comfortable with each other, and as time goes by you have less, but its ok with both parties involved, cause you work have kids, and have more of a life and when you do have sex, it's great, it maybe less after awhile, but it's usually the best..................
2007-03-14 01:42:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Undoubtedly more; only because we were newlyweds and that's what newlyweds do, right?
We both love sex, and being married certainly didn't create a significant change in our habits in total.
2007-03-14 01:41:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have actually had about the same - but I think the quality has improved - we have felt more open to explore new things knowing we have the commitment of the marriage vows.
2007-03-14 01:37:17 · answer #8 · answered by wild_orchid_tx36 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Less
but is up to each person to determain what is more or less
each marrage is different, i say less but i dint say worst, my sex when i do have it is great
2007-03-14 01:42:04 · answer #9 · answered by bluelitttt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MUCH LESS, but I think that has alot to do with the fact that I'm liking my husband less and less.
2007-03-14 01:44:24 · answer #10 · answered by littlemama_rules 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋