"Behind every deadbeat dad there is a bitter ex wife that thinks she deserves a better lifestyle then she had married PLUS thinks she owns the children."
There are many many deadbeat mothers as well and I agree with that, but not EVERY deadbeat dad is the victim.
Jeez..
2007-03-14 01:32:50 · 24 answers · asked by Jen F 5 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
The real victims are the CHILDREN, of course people who don't think about kids wouldn't get that, I guess.
2007-03-14 01:33:09 · update #1
some people are so stupid. You know, what woman wouldn't be bitter when the ahole takes on a woman with 3 kids who none of them go to school or work, nor does the woman, and he "can't" pay support, so she works OT so the kid can have what she needs, don't get me going here.
Dans suck.
2007-03-14 07:01:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
In every end of a relationship there are two sides to every story. Both sides think they are the victim. They never think of the children. If she feeld like it's time for a better lifestyle, then go get one. If he is a deadbeat dad then he causes the victims, he is not a victim. Doesn't matter the situation, deadbeat=jacka**
2007-03-14 01:53:07 · answer #2 · answered by laceywat1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The operative word there is deadbeat...whether a man or woman,,,,no use in society for deadbeats!!!! That phrase was self centered,,,no mention of what the children deserve...when they use them as money pawns and not the reason they deserve support!
2007-03-14 01:40:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are deadbeat mum and dads out there. Although i have been sperated from my son's father since he has been three, the both of us have made an effort for our son to get everybit of love that he deserves. We both seen so many partnerships and marriages disolved and the ones that it effects is the children. I thank god that i can sit down with my ex and discuss what is best for our son. It aint about us. We lost our love for each other but not for our son.
2007-03-14 01:39:08 · answer #4 · answered by Dimi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably see the heartache from the mans side as well and knows there are messed up men in this world but everyone knows about them but wanted everyone to see the women do the same.
I hate my babys dad and he is a deadbeat and the state will not help and I could not get help when I needed it. He is in jail and I don't know what to do now to get Child support.
But the man I am with is getting screwed in court and always pays his fair share in one state but his ex is making it heII on us cause she wants us to be miserable and she is money hungry.
2007-03-14 01:44:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex is a deadbeat and it is his fault b/c he is addicted and did time but he is out and still hasn't come through until he has the child support come out of his check.
I know I deserve better but he is not the one to make it happen for me. And I don't own my kid but he is my baby no matter how old he is.
2007-03-14 01:39:10 · answer #6 · answered by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a child that had a deadbeat mother.
2007-03-14 01:41:49 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
But deadbeat dads are more of a lightening rod of public dissatisfaction
2007-03-14 01:44:26 · answer #8 · answered by Experto Credo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some kids are deadbeats too.
2007-03-14 01:36:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Every couple situation takes two people to make or break it. Maybe people should take more time choosing a mate and look for a match of the minds and not of the bodies.
2007-03-14 01:36:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋