Whats this mean?

Question

I've been talkin to a girl through e-mail that I met in college a few years back from USC, we just got in touch again.. well we've been talking through e-mail and on the phone a lot and she said she wanted to go eat dinner and see a movie this weekend. She said she's not out looking for a boyfriend but if it did happen she would have no problem with it. What does that mean when a woman says that?? I know it seems basic but who knows??

She also seems a tough one, a lot of people she dates or dated usually end up becoming just friends.

Answer 1

She wants you to not be afraid that she will go on 1 date and expect a marriage proposal. She just wants to go and enjoy herself, and let whatever happens happen. Nothing wrong with that.

Answer 2

This means exactly what she is saying... She wants to just be friends at firts and if she ends up dating or feeling more down the road then that is fine with her as well. This is very basic. If you are up for it then see her but if you cant handle just being friends then tell her so and move on with your life. At least she is being honest and open with you and that is a good thing. She is not playing you and leading you on:) There should be more girls like her out there. She is not opposed to the idea of dating BUT she wants to take things slow and just be friends at first. She is actually pretty smart for doing things this way instead of rushing into something and then hurting you in the process.

Answer 3

She means that if the right chemistry is there with someone she is prepared to follow her heart.

Next, you said a lot of the people she dates end up becoming just friends, she should be complimented. It is not many people have the charisma, character and personality, among other things to sever an intimate relationship and the other party still want to be friends with them. She is probably a lovely person, not a tough one!

Answer 4

She doesnt want you to put pressure on the raltionship aspect of the friendship. Basically its saying lets just see where this leads. Kind of like taking it slow and keeping her heart uninvolved. Good strategy though, come into it with your cards on the table, no expectations on either side, you know how she feels. Shes being honest. Good luck

Answer 5

I think that she's means exactly what she said. She's not out pursuing you simply so that you'll get together, but if your date to the movies or whatever ends up being romantic, she'll go with that. She's not opposed to the idea of being with you, but she's not actively trying to get with you. Does that makes sense? I'd say go for it.

Answer 6

Dude, just go for it. Life has no guarantees, but if you don't take a chance you'll never know. You two may be perfect for each other. If so, she'll see and feel it too. If not, at least you know she'll still be a friend. It's a win/win, my man.

Answer 7

It means she not desperate and doesn't have to have a boyfriend like so many other women do. So, she's not needy and that's great. She just goes with the flow & is open to the fact that maybe their might be a connection.

If you end up with her, you would be pretty special to her.

Answer 8

Most likely it means that she wants to just see where it goes. She probably wants to connect as friends and if you fall then great but if not she still wants a friendship.

Answer 9

FIND OUT! Ask her out, and see for yourself. There's an old saying that "faint heart never won fair lady" which is appropriate here. goferit, man!

Answer 10

This is EXACTLY what it means dude. "I'm not really looking for a boyfreind but if it happened I'd be ok with it" TRANSLATION- "I don't have a boyfreind at the moment but I desperately want one and I'm going to say (the above) so I won't sound desperate or overbearing."