when i sometimes have misunderstaing with ppl i just couldn't keep silent..i usually ask appoligies (i am sorry, i didnt mean like that .. i mean this and that..) to your wonder the next day they just lost their respect for me...i feel it..why? yet i see them respecting the people who never say sorry..? nowadays i have decided not to do so (but i dont like it) ...keeping silent... do u feel normal when ...in your life? guys what do you say...
2007-03-14 01:08:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
In some societies, apologizing is a sign of weakness, even when the person is at fault. Unfortunately over the years that statement also has been used time and time again with no sincerity behind it.
My suggestion to you is when you have a misunderstanding with someone, realize that it may not be your fault, but a lack of understanding or faulty information. You can admit to being wrong - but you don't have to say you're sorry all the time.
Save apologies for the times when you really need to make amends and make a chance. That way people will know you are sincere when you DO apologize.
2007-03-14 01:14:34 · answer #1 · answered by sagegranny 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People have always been "weird." Nothing you are saying here has changed since the dawn of time. The thing is that you have no perspective on the situation. You only see it from your own point of view. What exactly have you been saying to people to tick them off in the first place? Maybe it is worse than whatever the people who never say sorry are saying. Maybe it is your manner. Maybe you have poor communication skills. Maybe you're just hanging out with the wrong people.
I do not mean this to put you down. I am just saying that everything is relative. I recommend having a serious self-evaluation of yourself. Think really hard about what you say and how people react to it, then adjust your behaviour appropriately. Ceasing to say you are sorry likely is not going to work. It is likely what you are saying that makes it so you HAVE to say sorry is what is ultimately getting you in trouble!
Good luck!
2007-03-14 08:14:00 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Alot of people today werent brought up right and have raunchy values and bad attudes and want everything handed to them asap. Do what you feel is the right thing, you will go crazy worrying about what those wackos are thinking and doing. At least you can sleep at night!
2007-03-14 08:12:54 · answer #3 · answered by EAT! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
screw them be happy say what you want, if they ignore you you ignore them I love it because they always come crawling back because they feel the weirdness in the air and tension but i like the tension its funny sooner or later they are talking to me. Your free to speek your mind unless your sexualy harrasing them wicj i don't think guy's do to each other
2007-03-14 08:13:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u think its people around u thats acting weird than it must be because your handsome or people are just embaresed to talk to you for some reason.
If people are still acting weird around you, its your chance to have some alone time with yourself, try hinding from people. maybe sooner or later people will forget about you and when you join your friends again, maybe the'll treat you equally as everyone else!!!!!!!!!!!!
PLEASE TAKE MY ADVICE!!! I LIKE TO HELP PEOPLE IN TROUBLE IN THEIR TIME OF NEED!!! IN MY SCHOOL EVERYONE DEPEND IN ME TO HELP THEM!!! HE HE!! HOPED I CAN HELP YOU!!!
2007-03-14 08:17:21 · answer #5 · answered by winx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say type proper english first, because if you talk like you type everyone is confused with you.
2007-03-14 08:11:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why do yu worry about others , worry about yourself.
2007-03-14 08:26:21 · answer #7 · answered by Rajesh R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good thing is that education never goes out of style!!!
2007-03-14 08:13:31 · answer #8 · answered by Roberto D 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋