my bf and i have been together for 5 yrs, and recently we had an accident with the condom, i have just came off the pill and now he has refused to make love we still oral but he wont go all the way. he says he has too many things to worry about than for me to get preg. what should i do???
2007-03-14 00:58:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
First, how would you feel if you got pregnant?
Second, you may need to change you condom brand (as condoms do break)
Third, perhaps you should back off from all forms of sex until he feels assured again.
2007-03-14 01:07:16 · answer #1 · answered by Experto Credo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a smart man. How long ago was the accident? Have you checked to see if your pregnant? Do not do withdrawl method. There is sperm in the pre-ejaculation fluid and you can get pregnant. If I were you call your gyn and ask him about the depo-prevera shot. It is a birth control shot you get every three months. There is also the patch you can wear. there are plenty of things out there now to prevent accidents. You doctor can help. Good luck
2007-03-14 08:33:27 · answer #2 · answered by tcg7213 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Smart man. I would be proud to be with that guy.
Either get back on birth control or deal with it. Sorry to sound so blunt.
There are many different types if you had problems with your last pill brand (why'd ya come off it?).
http://www.rateitall.com/t-330-birth-control-methods.aspx
2007-03-14 08:37:18 · answer #3 · answered by Terri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its a big step havin a baby. you both need to be ready and obviously he aint. he is a gud lad thinkin this way most lads would shag ya then fuk off if you got preggas. u wanna thank god u gota man like tha. xx
2007-03-14 08:56:34 · answer #4 · answered by Hayli P 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
thank your lucky stars you have a man that sounds responsible and not a dog thats out for himself and dont listen to thatnumber one idiot up top cause you relkease sperm during sex not just the ejaculation
2007-03-14 08:25:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
did you take the morning after pill go to the doctors and ask to have the injection you have to have it every three months but it does work tell your boyfriend not to be stupid
2007-03-14 08:05:28 · answer #6 · answered by shell 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
check your status using an over the counter pregnancy test.
2007-03-14 08:04:11 · answer #7 · answered by exo 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
honor his wishes. When you get married, then it is time to start going all the way again.
2007-03-14 09:18:03 · answer #8 · answered by Buzz s 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Listen to him!
2007-03-14 08:04:43 · answer #9 · answered by milittleguy 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Let him pull out and release his load all over your face or just jerk him off.
2007-03-14 08:04:08 · answer #10 · answered by Cornbread Fred 2 · 0⤊ 5⤋