I have been with my partner for almost two years. I have a daughter from a previous relationship. In the space of a year, I have suffered two miscarriages, the first one, tests showed the baby had Downs Syndrome, the second one which happened a month ago, was just like having a period. We have had tests done to see if either one has a defficiency, but we are both fine. We would really like to have a baby of our own, can anyone help with ideas of conceiving.
2007-03-14 00:42:01 · 11 answers · asked by Jianna S 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
ive had a miscarriage and its a horrible horrible thing. theres no answers why, it just happens but you will carry your partners baby when the time is right. im 20 weeks pregnant so i know how stressful it can be at the start of the pregnancy wondering will i lose this baby too. the only advice i can offer is to try not to worry although its hard and to believe in your pregnancy, think positively.
i really do wish you the best of luck xxx
2007-03-14 00:48:32 · answer #1 · answered by Şơƥɦɨȩ'ȿ ♡Μυɱ˗Μυɱ♡ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either the baby wasn't viable or the mother's body wasn't able to complete the pregnancy.
I was told by my OBGYN many years ago that most women have multiple miscarriages during their lifetimes but are unaware of them because they happen so soon into a pregnancy. I thought about it and found there were a few times that my period did not account fully for the bleeding and pain I experienced.
I hope that you are not dealing with the loss of an unborn child, but if you are, take comfort in the knowledge that this was natures way. Miscarriage doesn't mean any future pregnancy will fail. Keep trying.
2007-03-14 00:53:09 · answer #2 · answered by Batty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
out of every 5 eggs thast actually fertalise in a normal pregnancy only 1 makes it to implantation and results in a baby.
early misscarriage is very common... probably alot more common than people realise, many early miscarriages are mistaken for a late period.
if you think about it the cells of an early embryo have to multiply in a certain way.... if they do not go the way nature intended then a misscarriage usually is the result.
take follic acid for at least 3 months before you try and convieve and avoid soft cheese and things like under cooked eggs. shell fish should also be avoided. make sure your fit and healthy and then hope for the best.
good luck with your journey..... and may the outcome be all you want it to be.
anna :)
2007-03-14 06:12:13 · answer #3 · answered by in the truth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry that this has happened to u but as hard as it is u should try and see it that it wasnt meant to be with the first 2 due to complications that may not even have been spotted and your gift will be a beautiful baby that is perfect in every way.
The first 2 just wasnt meant to be for reasons that no one can explain but relax(I know thats hard) and enjoy and everything should work out fine.
Good luck and take care.
2007-03-14 00:52:03 · answer #4 · answered by stacey f 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am so sorry, I have gone throw the same thing 3 x
and it has been hard on both my husband & I
he still unable to see a pregnant woman without crying
we wanted a baby so much we have both been tested and eveything is wonderfull except we are not able to carry a child full term
a specialits that I am seeing prescibe Clomid
I brought it but afraid taking because of the side efffect
and the fact that my mother & aunts died of Ovarian cancer
and my sister have to have her ovaries remove 2 years ago
my Hu and I will try one more time but that it the last misc I almost die
my advise to you is to try Fertil Blend (at GNC store)
buy for women & for man it cost 39.99 a box
I heard that it does not have any side effect
Good luck
I will be taken it starting this month I will post something if it work
2007-03-14 03:47:33 · answer #5 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why is the sky blue?
There is no 1 reason why they happen, unfortunately it does just happen, and most importnatly, no-one is to blame. Sometimes the human body senses that the fetus isnt developing properly and so rids it. Keep trying, Im sure you will be blessed with a presence of tiny feet when the time is right.
2007-03-14 01:34:51 · answer #6 · answered by Need_to_know 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all sorry for your loss! i had a miscarriage last year and in my eyes it was just meant to be there was either going to be something wrong with the baby where it would of affected both of us! but dont give up huni it will happen soon!!!
love Kirsty xxx
2007-03-14 04:02:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have heard that a miscarriage is natures way of ending a bad pregnancy.........something wrong with the baby. As upsetting as it is, if the above it true, then i guess it could be a blessing in disguise.
2007-03-14 02:11:44 · answer #8 · answered by starwiz76 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Things happen for a reason usually because there is something wrong with the child nature takes it course. Pray about it, it will happen.
2007-03-14 00:45:41 · answer #9 · answered by Charlene 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
-Lower hormones.
-Baby's growth stops.
-Uterus lining is not thick enough from hormones so baby sheds off during your period(in the early stage)..maybe one month.
There's alot of reasons.
2007-03-14 00:50:12 · answer #10 · answered by Lorelei's Mommy ( & prego) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋