im experiencing so much pain wen my partner tries to insert his organ into mine..some tips to enjoy our life..

Question

we r married 10 days back, since then we r trying..im now really scared as there is so much of pain wen the organ gets inserted..we r removing it out from the middle itself..so now we dont know wat pleasure it would be to have sex..if u can help us out in letting us knw hw we can have a better safe and pain less sex, we would be more thank ful..

Answer 1

If he's trying to put an organ in there, no wonder it hurts. Tell your husband to use his penis instead.

Answer 2

You are probably too stressed out and worrying about it too much. The best thing to do is to have a cosy, relaxing evening together,then just gently touch each other and find out what turns you on.Then let him explore your body slowly and sensually,eventually letting him insert a finger then two .All the while you can be exploring his body and watching his reactions.Then when you are relaxed let him gently insert his penis or better still you do it yourself .That way you can control how far he goes in.If this does not work seek medical help.I'm sure you will find a solution.Just enjoy each other first the rest will happen in time.Good luck!!

Answer 3

I do think "love at first sight" is tied to recognizing people from past incarnations. I've not only seen ghosts in my life but heard them. Perhaps hearing them is even more worrisome. Once as a child I heard a ghost ascend the wooden stairs up three flights in my grandmother's apartment building, walking right past me, the sound of his footsteps like that of a grown man. I heard him come in the door at the ground floor and trudge all the way to the landing on the third. I heard a ghost whisper my name in one very spooky house where I lived for a time, and the doorbell would sometimes ring, one that that hadn't been hooked up for twenty or thirty years (all the wires were cut and removed!) This ringing doorbell was heard by another witness, as well.

Answer 4

Read the book "the act of marriage" and see if that would give you any tips.
The ones that come to mind are
1) not using lubrication like KY jelly
2) spend more time in foreplay. 15-20 minutes is a wonderful place to start. this is to help you relax in the lower region and to get you lubricated and ready.

Answer 5

Have you ever had sex before? Are you a virgin? If so it's just going to take a few tries before the pain stops and it is comftroble for you. to be honest, you aren't going to feel pleasure from it the first couple of times till it stops hurting. The best thing you guys can do is keep trying till your muscles are able to stretch.

Answer 6

pre playing with your prtner is very important. When both arose to maximum a sort of lubricant will be produced in your prtner's vagina and aprat from that you will have to use your own lubricant in order to facilitate the easy penitration, This will help u to enjoy more comfertabally try it and then say how was it? lubricant :any high viscus oil with good odur.

Answer 7

Ask yourself, do you enjoy time & sex with your partner? do you have any issues about sex? Better resolve these first.

Then, always have foreplay so you'll always be lubricated "inside". If needed, buy lubricants to aid in your lovemaking.

Good luck!

Answer 8

purchase a lubricant for starters, then remind him that your body is still preparing for his and that he needs to take it much slower. after a bit, it will start to feel all good

Answer 9

use a lubricant and ishe inserting in the right hole?

Answer 10

because you think there is going to be pain,you are all tence and this dosent help
try see a doctor,you may have an infection,he may have is also