please post - help and advice appreciated
2007-03-14 00:21:32 · 10 answers · asked by Franky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
That's a tough question - it's never easy to get over somebody and a heart ache can last for a long time.
First you need to try to work things out with him - are you sure it is over for good?
Then you will have to go through the process of feeling hurt and crying etc.
Then you will have to try and pick yourself up - go out - spend time with friends and family, maybe go out on girls nights etc.
Fill your time with good times and good friends - that lightens the hurt.
The sooner you start enjoying your self again the faster the healing process will start.
You know how the saying goes - if you fall off the horse - get right back on
The sooner you pick your self up the sooner you will feel better and the sooner you can go out there and start dating again
Good Luck
2007-03-14 00:49:12 · answer #1 · answered by Juanita L 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A true love stays with us forever. How the relationship ended and how quickly we're able to move on are big factors. Everyone's different. We never truly get over someone we've loved with all our heart and soul. But the feelings of sadness of not having them in our life does fade. In time, you will be looking back with fond memories and of times you'll always cherish. There is a very wise saying "Don't cry because it's over. Smile because it happened." I couldn't agree more because I've been there too!...
2007-03-14 11:53:06 · answer #2 · answered by princessnana143 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it takes time there is nothing you can do it about it it happens its hard to get through i still love a guy i haven't been with for 10 years and i am married i would never cheat on my husband but I'm not over him and like i said its been 10 years so i don't know everyone is different i do have a child with him some people heal quick some heal over time sorry i couldn't help you good luck
2007-03-14 07:31:07 · answer #3 · answered by beth g 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's no formula for how long it takes, it's different for everyone. To help move things along, get rid of anything that reminds you of him, have no contact with him, every time you find yourself thinking of him make yourself think about something else, dwell on his negative qualities rather than dreaming of all the positive. You'll eventually get over him.
2007-03-14 09:51:14 · answer #4 · answered by Zabes 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are still in love with him, why are you wanting to get over him? Did you break up and for what reason? When we truly love someone, they usually love us back. Maybe you should move on and find out what "real love" is. Then you might find out that "mutual love" will keep two together.
2007-03-14 07:26:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you truly loved him so so much, I'm sorry to tell you but that never goes away. I know, I've been through it.
But life goes one...you've got to give yourself some time (but not too much time, you don't want end up old and alone) and move on...if I hadn't of done that I wouldn't have my two beautiful baby girls right now.
2007-03-14 07:58:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i have been married 23 years and love my wife but i also still love the woman before her, i have not herd , seen , or talked to her in 25 years but ya i still love her so i guess the answer is for ever
2007-03-14 07:35:07 · answer #7 · answered by bluelitttt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no time table for a broken heart. Unfortunately, you'll just have to feel this way until you don't feel this way anymore. Hang in there, you'll find love again.
2007-03-14 07:50:16 · answer #8 · answered by Debra D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
long time.
2007-03-14 07:28:39 · answer #9 · answered by coffee37man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't know, will let you know when I happens though
2007-03-14 08:51:22 · answer #10 · answered by bigdaddy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋