Agreed this may not be love from both sides - but, if not What Is this? and why all these thoughts?

Question

Hey,
Just wondering its been forever since the break up 1 yr and we've somehow always gotten back to talkin or wanting to talk to eachother.... I do not not why, and niether can i stop looking at pictures of us, and whenever i do i get that same ol feeling even tough everyone i mean everyone - tells me he is not worth me

i do not know why, and do not know what to do,
plz post and advice or help

thanks

Answer 1

it has been a year and you need to meet someone else and get on with your life if don't want to be with the guy get rid of the pictures, you are probably remembering only the good times and are forgetting the reason for the breakup get out and meet new people. good luck

Answer 2

I understand completely. Yes, you are obsessing but there is a reason why. Evidently this person touched your heart in a way that no one else has been able to.
I think that the best of romances deserve second chances. I think that you should talk to this guy again and let your feelings be known. Do not tell him the extent of your obsessions though. Just casually mention that you still think of him frequently and in a romantic way. If he is open and willing then you can try again.
If he is not dear, you will have no choice but to open yourself to loving someone else. Remember, everyone can't be wrong. But neither does everyone have your feelings. Your answer lies in a very direct conversation with this guy.
Whatever happens, I wish for you healing and love.

Answer 3

Dude that's turned into full blown obsession. Which is not safe for you or her. Since it's been a year you should of been over her. Many will try to say it's romantic and true love. A logical person will know it's the first forms of obsession and then second form will be stocking. Knowing when to let go and knowing when to fix what's broken. If this lady likes you and you can have a future you wouldn't be broken up in the first place.

See where I am going with this? If it were meant to be you wouldn't of been broken up in the first place. Move on and move forward without her. Especially before you become a stalker if you haven't already.

Answer 4

You are definitely starting to obsess over it. Have you even considered dating someone else??? Perhaps you should cut of all contact with him for a while and move on with your life and when you are in a better place, perhaps you can talk to him on a friendly basis...nothing more.