2007-03-13 23:25:38 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Of course for heavens sake
how else will your hand get a break?
2007-03-13 23:31:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO NO NO NO NO NO NO ! Why would you wanna go do something so time wasting, money grabbing, head-aching thing like that for!!!! FREEDOM = GONE!!
People always make mistakes all throughout life. How do you know you wont ever look back on it and know it was a mistake. Whats the point, if you really love someone, then why is a bit of paper going to highlight that fact or make it any different. Fact is, it wont. I think marriage is a waste of time, personally. Don't want to offend anyone out there!
2007-03-13 23:32:07 · answer #2 · answered by london lady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you feel it is right then yes, if you want to spend the rest of your life with the person then yes, but if you are being pressured then no, be wary that you are asking this question in the first place. obviously there are some doubts in your mind but on the other hand everyone gets these doubts, more so on the eve or morning of their wedding. its healthy. only you will know the right answer. look deep within you and decide whats right for you and not anyone else around you. whatever the outcome you can still live your life and meet new people, experience new things. good luck
2007-03-13 23:31:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
Gosh, such an open ended question.
You must ask yourself some questions now to find the answer out yourself. no one else can help you , i guess.
How old are you right now? And what are your ambitions?
When both fit, then you have got your answer right there!
I thought of not getting married all my life....till i went overseas for my university studies and met the love of my life.
:)
Hope this inspires you.
Nothing is a closed ended decision.
Change Happens.
Shift Happens.
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2007-03-13 23:34:31 · answer #4 · answered by Eric Chua Yanshan Maynas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not unless you have a job ( Finacially Responsible ) Have your own place to live ( Not with family ) Mature enough to be in a relationship ( Not acting like a Child) and family oriented ( Not looking for someone to sleep with when you get bored with whom you are married to).
2007-03-13 23:30:24 · answer #5 · answered by Mary O 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only after you ask yourself if the person you want to marry is the type of person you can talk to openly about anything, Can wake up to every morning knowing that you resolved your issues before you went to sleep and feeling good about it, and If you can dedicate your life to just one person.
2007-03-13 23:29:32 · answer #6 · answered by penelopejanepitstop 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha.. well i hope you dont only chose to get married cuz of what people tell you here.. but get married.. when your old enough to settle, cuz to many young people get married and end in divorced due to the fact they didnt experience life.. so just have fun (to an extent) and when your ready.. youll know whats up
2007-03-13 23:29:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not until you have spent about a year getting to know each other. That means not just going out for dinner and a movie; it means discussing all the issues that are really important to you; sex, children, money, careers, religion, politics, etc.
2007-03-14 00:26:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!!!!!!!!!!! unless you are matured, educated, earning a salary, prepared to sacrifice mentally, able to calm situation during quarrels, willing to accept responsibility, love children, love the in-laws, prepared to wake up at wee hours to feed the baby, help in kitchen, mop and clean the floors, cut grass
in the garden, say sweet,loving.sensuous words in her ears and finally you are not impotent. Good luck
2007-03-14 00:09:22 · answer #9 · answered by AdultMale 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, inorder to get married, u have to: have a good income, find someone wants to marry u too, and comitment. then u ask that question to ur self once again.
2007-03-13 23:31:58 · answer #10 · answered by EJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Married people are said to be happier and live longer, than those that are unmarried.
2007-03-13 23:29:02 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋