2007-03-13 23:16:41 · 12 answers · asked by weirdlittlebritain 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
im not a loser and im not making it up its only recently. I questioned my sexuality while ago and came to the conclusion im straight but now this has happened. Generally looking at them like their funning on treadmil and i check them out.
2007-03-13 23:31:27 · update #1
No, its very normal, unless and untill you have fantacies like you are involved with them sexually. I go to gym and I do see other people working out and sometimes their body seems to me to be very attractive....You know why this happens because we think that if we have a good body, we will have good girls too. Looking at other dude's body, sometime I think about the luck of the guy and sometimes i think that he might be enjoying the company of good girls. Thoughts like this come to my mind. Analyse yourself and see what type of attraction do you have with gym dudes. In my gym it is very normal to touch other man's privates just for fun and then all of us laugh, or if somebody stares at other's privates and giggle, it is also considered as a matter of fun, enjoyment. It also depends what type of society you are in, if it is free enough with all this you will never feel that you are a gay or a bi, but if you have been bread up in an atmosphere where you had less guys and lots of gals then it is possible that you admire them just for filling that lack of emotions that guys share.
2007-03-14 04:31:00 · answer #1 · answered by Sam- the "big boss" 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there, No, just because you look doesn't mean your gay at all, and it depends what part and why you want to look at it. Do you just look to see how you can improve your body-shape? If your looking at his dikk then you wont improve the size of yours cos no gym work can do that, it's only homework that does that. But if you look at the other guys body then that's OK cos your using him as an example for you to work on and build yourself, why do you think they sell bodybuilding magazines, so you can work on your shape not to jerk off in the toilet, Go for it man, your still on the right side of the fence.
2007-03-14 13:18:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe...
does your gazing involve sexual fantasy? do you masturbate thinking about the men you saw? you might just be curious or admire them for their physique. or crave some kind of companionship with other fit males (sort of like you want to identify yourself as a fit guy, so you crave the attentions of other fit, virile men). or you could be bi/gay and this is yourself figuring it out.
i used to tell people the surefire way to know what you "like" is to think about what you fantasize about while masturbating. if its other guys only, then you're probably bi or gay.
whatever you decide these attractions mean, be true to yourself and you'll be fine.
2007-03-14 11:00:56 · answer #3 · answered by Jnr528 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You either appreciate the build and want to be like them, or could be bi if you get aroused
2007-03-14 09:57:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I know where you coming from. Maybe your just admiring their body and you hope that someday that you will be as fit as them. Guys do it. Doesn't mean their gay.
2007-03-14 08:10:04 · answer #5 · answered by Some Random Guy 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Unless your "looking" leads to sexual thoughts, I'd say there wasn't any real issue with your heterosexuality.
2007-03-14 09:01:25 · answer #6 · answered by IndyT- For Da Ben Dan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just injoy yourself honey and look at all you want and SWEAT SWEAT!!!, PUSH PUSH !!!! haha just injoy yourself kiddo and have fun.
2007-03-14 07:47:14 · answer #7 · answered by ♥lois c♥ ☺♥♥♥☺ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what body part are you looking at?
2007-03-14 06:20:40 · answer #8 · answered by Goddess of Grammar 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on you how u check on them.... = )
2007-03-14 06:43:17 · answer #9 · answered by Rene A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just sad and insecure.
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2007-03-14 06:23:52 · answer #10 · answered by Plum 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋