my mom's really busy with the house work and i cant help her cuz i have alot of other important work to do plz tell me how i should stop her from doing all the work and let the maid do it .......the maid is useless she works but my mom still does all the house work :( plz tell me how i should stop her from doing alll the work....................plz dont say something rude or dont abuse cuz some times people do it and tht gets me angry if u have nuthing else to say just abuse then dont write anything and keep ur abuses 2 urself
2007-03-13 23:09:24 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Maybe she likes cleaning the house....Just leave her alone, she'll stop when she wants to....
2007-03-14 01:54:29 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask Mom how much she pays the maid to do the housework. When she tells you ask her if she would like to save that much by firing the maid cause she is still doing all the work or does she want want to find a maid that actually earns her money. I know a lot of women who have maids come in twice a week and they clean up the house before they come.. I don't understand it either!
2007-03-14 06:14:28 · answer #2 · answered by Tapestry6 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would not even attempt to abuse someone ....i am not like that...........but one thing i do not understand is why pay a maid if she is not any good...........is there some way that you could get ahold of a agency that could give you all a good maid and then perhaps take some of the burden off of your mom........and you should not be worrying so much but i think it is good that you care about your mom.........your mom needs to get someone else....or try not to let it bother you so much..............i had 7 sons and managed to keep my house clean and the kids took care of...this maid must not be earning her wages................
2007-03-14 06:15:22 · answer #3 · answered by sanangel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who has a maid this day and age. Sorry kid but you should be helping your mom with the house work and not a maid.
2007-03-14 06:12:18 · answer #4 · answered by step b 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Seems to me if your mother has a maid, and is still busy with the house then that is what she enjoys. Doesn't make sense to me, but it is not mine or your business. If that's what makes her happy.
2007-03-14 06:13:26 · answer #5 · answered by michelebaruch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fire the maid and find someone that will do what they get paid for if she is not earning her money then she has got to go.
2007-03-14 06:17:56 · answer #6 · answered by Mary O 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey you are so caring about your mom (thats so sweet)
just try to tell your mom that you feel bad when she does so much of work and you are unable to help tell that let the maid do some amount of work
and its not good for her health also
when your mom will know that you care so much about her she will really feel good
all the best to you and your mom
2007-03-14 06:15:23 · answer #7 · answered by catrina a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't change other people. You can only change yourself. Find time in your busy schedule to help her.
2007-03-14 06:12:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋