okay let me explain....im gay but i know a verry nice girl and she is totally in love with me but she doesnt know that im gay!!!What can i do? i dnt want to loose her friendship
2007-03-13 22:20:00 · 8 answers · asked by (,'')Sweet guy 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I'm in a relationship right now with a guy who I really love, and I think he is gay, but he won't admit it. I really don't want him to be gay, but if he is I would rather know. I don't want to waste my life with someone who doesnt desire me for being a woman. If he is, well, I will remain his friend, (Although this will be really hard at first), but I want to be with a man who makes me feel like a true woman. If your desires are to be with a man, then release yourself from your internal lie, and release her from your confusion. If you love her you will want whats best for her, and if the love is mutual you will be able to find a new plateau for the basis of a different relationship. You need to be honest to yourself and to her first though. Good luck....
2007-03-14 10:21:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this girl totally in love with you because you made her think you were too? If so, then I believe she would get real mad at you!
I think you should prepare her to the truth. Friendship is made of this, talking, telling the truth, opening hearts..
If you lose her, she wasn't a true friend.
Something like this happened to my daughter, when she was 16. She liked this guy a lot, she told him and..he told her he was gay. He was 16 too, so he was just finding out at that time that he was.
So now they are BEST FRIENDS. :-)
2007-03-14 05:32:08 · answer #2 · answered by Silvia N 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her the truth and be honest with her. let her know you value ur friendship but that's all it can be and hope for the best. My opinion if you knew all this b4 she got this much n 2 u, u should have stopped it way b4 feelings got involved. Typical man 4 u. wanting the best of both worlds.......BLAH BLAH BLAH......
2007-03-14 11:09:31 · answer #3 · answered by MS.MOCHA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women love having gay friends so you have nothing to worry about.
2007-03-14 08:03:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her you're gay. That simple. You'll have a long chat about it, maybe there'll be some tears, then you'll both hug, and she'll become your f@g hag.
2007-03-14 05:56:31 · answer #5 · answered by Angelpaws 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know. I'm sorry. I thanks god have never been in that situation... Just tell her and pray for the best and if she loves you then she will understand. Are you her Boyfriend or something? How do you know she Loves You?
2007-03-14 05:28:01 · answer #6 · answered by D.Allman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you love her as you friend, but your sexual preference is for men. If she really loves you, she will want to remain your dear friend.
2007-03-14 05:47:26 · answer #7 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your not gay you just think you are go for the normal relationship and you will be a happy
2007-03-14 06:22:44 · answer #8 · answered by Are we using our brains today 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋