He has got an arranged marriage in Bangladesh but he doesn't want to get married for an unknown Indian lady.We love each other.His family will never accept him to get married for a non-muslim.What can we do?What should he tell his family to accept that is loving me.I am European.
Thanks a lot for answers.
2007-03-13 22:18:45 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Praise be to Allaah.
If a Muslim wants to marry a Christian woman, she does not have to become Muslim first, because of the general statement in the Qur’aan (interpretation of the meaning):
“Made lawful to you this day are . . . chaste women from those who were given the Scripture (Jews and Christians) before your time . . .” [al-Maa’idah 5:5].
The conditions for a non-Muslim woman to marry a Muslim man are that she should be of the People of the Book (Jewish or Christian) and that she should be chaste
you can marry him without convert to islam but the problem is, his parent. Why don't you show your respect to his mother by seeing them and convinced them that you will be a good daughter in law. you also has to convinced them that you really love their son.
2007-03-14 19:12:39 · answer #1 · answered by Tia 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course you two CAN get married. Whether you SHOULD is another matter. If I were you, I would not consider marriage to this man unless he was strong enough to stand up for you and for his love for you against any opposition from his family. You do not want to put yourself into a situation where you marry a spineless weakling who will watch his family humiliate you at every turn without stepping up to protect you.
2007-03-14 05:33:57 · answer #2 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i am from bangladesh and muslim too...well my opinion is..are sure that you love him truely?are you sure he loves u truely?do u have strength to sacrifice for ur love?well u can marry him as a non muslim but on that case his family wont accept you..and as a result he cant marry you so u'll have to be muslim then if u two wantz to marry each other i dont think so his family wont hav any problem....between decide first that he is ur true love or not and u respect islam or not....its not right to change ur religion for marrying some1 or anything like that but u must have to have faith on that religion u are accepting....all da best
2007-03-14 05:28:20 · answer #3 · answered by Fariha T 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you both love each other then tell him to approach his parents and convince them .as some families still today in Indian territory does not accept a girl from a different race if he is ready to accept you as a wife he has to make efforts by the way in their religion they have this converting stuff the girl has to convert to their religion think before commitment god bless you
2007-03-14 05:33:39 · answer #4 · answered by honey 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes u Can... But let me Tell you something.... You two would probably b all different to each other... i mean We muslim people have Beliefs Differs from yrs.... Some muslim people are racist...So watch out...All am saying is ..you'd probably think different have a different life style.. So i dont thinhk this is the best idea...
Best of luck...
2007-03-14 05:24:04 · answer #5 · answered by babyyocca 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can get married as long as you are commited to that marriage and prepared to become a muslim cos thats need commitment
2007-03-14 05:24:53 · answer #6 · answered by NUNU 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF 2 PPL WANT TO MARRY NO1 CAN STOP THEM (AS LONG AS THEY'RE OVER 18!)
IF U DO MARRY HIM MAKE SURE HE'S NOT EXPECTING THINGS FROM U THAT U CANNOT FULFIL
I KNOW HOW BAD FAMILY PROBLEMS GET BUT TRUST ME IF HE WANTS U BAD ENOUGH, HE'LL NEVER MARRY SOM1ELSE
2007-03-14 05:29:05 · answer #7 · answered by tupac4evaa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them that Islam allows mulsim men to marry none muslim women...
2007-03-14 06:17:53 · answer #8 · answered by Sahar 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be prepared to be treated like a slave or at best, a second class citizen. Muslim women are treated like dirt. If that's your thing, go right ahead but don't think you'll "change him".
2007-03-14 07:24:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He can. But you will have to wrap up yourself from head to foot for the rest of your life, be a walking ghost in the streets, be a sex slave, and ruin the life of your children. Dare go?
2007-03-14 05:24:15 · answer #10 · answered by indike111 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋