My man for 1 year and some months has just decided to boy-cott my presence for now two months, with lots of false excuses. With no querrel or any kind of malicious behaviour surely, I get stressed! I want him back but don't know how to do it. So help.
It's serious and no joke.
2007-03-13 21:22:12 · 5 answers · asked by jeyomosh 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Hate to say it, but it appears that he has either gotten tired of the relationship, or he has found someone new. There is nothing that you can do, other than ask him why.
Unfortunately we can not make the ones we love, love us.
2007-03-13 21:28:53 · answer #1 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, what got him attracted to you in the first place? What has changed that made him cold towards you?
1) If he wanted you just because you're a woman, then I'm sorry, it won't last. Please let him go before you get hurt even worse. A man who loves you will respect you and not take advantage of your heart or body just because you love him.
2) Maybe you changed. Then you gotta ask is the change good or bad?
For example, if you were an independent confident woman who became a subservient humble woman for her man, you might want to get your spirit back because maybe that's what he loved. Some men love strong spirit in a woman.
If it was the other way around though, don't bother changing back for his sake.
3) This is what most people hope for so only consider this if you know for sure. Maybe he's afraid of commitment and the thought of getting serious with you scares him. In that case, don't worry. As long as he loves you for you and you stay the way you are, he'll come back to you.
Bottomline: Does the guy respect you and love you or is he only after you because you're woman? Once you have this question answered, it'll be easier for you to know what to do. All the best.
2007-03-14 04:45:31 · answer #2 · answered by Studier Alpha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That behavior shows that he has no respect for you. He's already wasted a year of your life; don't give him another one.
2007-03-14 04:30:13 · answer #3 · answered by contemplating 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks like he's done. If you want to tell for sure don't call him.........if he calls you then you'll know, if not then it's time to move on.
2007-03-14 04:33:24 · answer #4 · answered by dubi4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is tryng to put pressure on you to dump him. So do it.
2007-03-14 04:34:34 · answer #5 · answered by True Blue Brit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋