The guy is so cute and he served in the army. I think that he is a real stud, but I do not know if he is a gay.
2007-03-13 20:19:14 · 14 answers · asked by sweet boy 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You need to hone and develop your "gay-dar." Be careful, many manly,macho men may take offense - physically. Be smart, move on. The sexy haircut and buffness are considered necessary in today's modern military and has nothing to do with gay attractiveness - promotion points, my friend. Again, move on. Besides, if it were reciprocal, you'd know.
2007-03-13 20:32:44 · answer #1 · answered by Rickydotcom 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Hi I am a heterosexual but have worked with many 'gay' nurses they were the best ever to work with and socialize with. The reason that I am replying to your question is that I was under the impression that gay guys were able to 'sense' other gay guys. If this guy is straight it is okay to fantasize, we all do that, but I am sure there is someone out there for you, and one day he will come along. All the best, have a great life
2007-03-13 20:37:08 · answer #2 · answered by judles 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't say stud, that word is so yesterday.
;)
Anyway, if this guy is indeed straight, you'll have to find another army ...err sexy man. He He.
I'm sorry that you've fallen for a straight man, It happens to the best of us, unfortunately.
2007-03-13 22:25:51 · answer #3 · answered by D.Allman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you just ask him if he would like to go have coffee or lunch with you sometime and find out more about him and then you will know whether or not to hit on him or not if he is straight and not homophobic, you will at least have gained a good friend, and no matter you orientation we all could use more of those.
2007-03-14 02:49:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
With army guys, there is no safe way to tell without getting to know him very well to the point that he can confide in you.
2007-03-14 02:56:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful. That happens to a lot of us. He might be the type to be offended. And here is the most important thing to remember, so REMEMBER this, okay?
PEOPLE WHO ARE THINKING THAT YOU WANT TO HAVE SEX WITH THEM TREAT YOU DIFFERENT WHEN THEY WERE NOT LOOKING FOR THE SAME THING AND THEY FIND OUT WHAT YOU ARE THINKING.
. . . just don't allow it to hurt you so much. But DO take 'no' for an answer.
2007-03-13 20:31:40 · answer #6 · answered by Christian Sinner 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Join the club, i'm in love with a straight woman. It'll never work, find someone who will love you and not play with your heart.
2007-03-13 20:44:34 · answer #7 · answered by ~Twisted Sister~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thought you KNEW he was straight. If that's the case, move on. He's not going to reciprocate in a manner you'll enjoy.
2007-03-13 20:22:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
i dont see the problem,and if youre one of those who believe youre born one way or the other thats a myth and even if it were true its possible he is bright enough to realize he can appreciate both genders.
2007-03-13 20:29:42 · answer #9 · answered by boutgivup 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is not you won't be able to change him, the only way you can find out if he is, is if you chat to him and get to know him
2007-03-13 20:31:52 · answer #10 · answered by (",) JJ (,") 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋