or have them keep it to themselves...
(so your feelings don't get hurt)
2007-03-13 19:51:08 · 19 answers · asked by Holly 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
If someone has a negative remark about me and it is an opinion, they have that right but I know and my friends know, who I am and that is all that matters. If it is constructive, I'd rather have someone tell me to my face, and not play a headgame. If there is something about me that needs improving, I choose my words and take responsibility for my actions, so when someone comes along and says something bad, they need to back it up, with facts, proof, intention and consideration- that's fair, in my opinion and based on experience.
2007-03-13 20:02:28 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd rather know!! 2 reasons:
1. if they tell me why they don't like me, i can probably change something and fix the problem, and then everybody's happy.
2. if i can't fix it or they are just a jerk, then i won't care and it won't hurt my feelings at all!
It really hurts when someone hates you and acts like a friend to your face, then does all this backstabbing behind your back... ugh. why are people like that!!?
2007-03-13 19:55:17 · answer #2 · answered by lynn 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Usually, I'd prefer to have people come right up to me and tell me what they think. I appreciate honesty, even if it's occasionally brutal. But there are times when some people's judgment calls can be so petty and stupid that it's not even worth worrying about.
2007-03-13 19:57:35 · answer #3 · answered by solarius 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
THEY dont hurt my feelings. ID love 4 them to tell me so i can avoid them in the furture.
2007-03-13 19:53:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is a tough one...yes and no. Either way..once you find out, its going to hurt your feelings. Theres no safe way around it.
2007-03-13 19:59:50 · answer #5 · answered by Minty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as they don't tell anyone else and i hear about it later, i don't give 2 shi ts how they feel about me. i probably don't like them either. u know i'm pretty sure i dont like them either. and my feelings never get hurt when i find out some one doesn't like me.
2007-03-13 19:55:44 · answer #6 · answered by Neev 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a straight forward person better they tell me than for me to find out afterwards through someone else.... now that's when i really blow my top.
2007-03-13 19:55:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, they need to keep that drama to themselves.
2007-03-13 20:39:43 · answer #8 · answered by Jay (cynical) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When someone tells me something I don't like,
I have them removed from my presence.
2007-03-13 19:56:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt want to be told, unless it was something like "hey she really smells"
because id like to be told if i smell.
2007-03-13 19:54:25 · answer #10 · answered by wilma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋