I've finally come to the conclusion that this whole dating thing is not for me. I'm fine with the whole idea of being a spinster for life. what do you guys really want in a girl? a good girl or a bad girl or an in between and if an in between, when is it best for her to show her bad girl side versus her angelic?
2007-03-13 19:34:14 · 4 answers · asked by latissmus dorsi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
hey i'm sorry you're feeling down :) maybe you've been acting desperate? or extremely low in self-confidence? maybe you're just trying to be someone else when you're not? or maybe you have set your standards too high?
you've made a good choice as of now--haven't you heard that things happen when you lease expect it? so you're not a failure and you should accept yourself and your life just the way it is. learn to listen to your gut, say what you want to say and do what you say you will. just be confident and be sociable whenever possible and in the correct situations :)
everyone learns by making mistakes so if you've made many mistakes, just learn from them and accept them and yourself. and change bad habits and improve weak points about yourself while focusing only on your good points (strengths).
remember that you're not alone and that God cares for you...
2007-03-13 20:38:54 · answer #1 · answered by wat_more_can_i_say? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most men will say that they want an in between girl, a little good and a little bad. But what it sounds like to me is that it is not the men, but you. I think you are trying to be someone or something that you are not around men, just be yourself.
2007-03-14 02:38:54 · answer #2 · answered by smiddro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself. Don't put on an act and pretend to be something you are not. Guys are not worth the trouble.Eventualy, the right guy will come along who will love and appriciate you just the way you are.
2007-03-14 02:39:27 · answer #3 · answered by lululegs2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should read Dr. Phil's book "love smart". It is AWESOME and it will answer all those questions that you have. You could try his website too. He is good at what he does and I promise it will do you good just checking it out... what have you got to lose except doubt anyway? www.drphil.com
2007-03-14 02:41:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋