I like to look at and i get turned on by pictures of naked man and she-males, but the idea of sex with a man grosses me out.
So why am i getting aroused when i have no desire to have sex with another man?
2007-03-13 18:14:37 · 8 answers · asked by Hellspawn 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
As a gay woman, I can relate. I can also get aroused by naked men and by she-males, but there's no way on God's green earth that I actually want to have s3x with a man!! That doesn't make me straight.
Doesn't mean you're gay dude, so you can relax.
2007-03-13 18:21:21 · answer #1 · answered by Angelpaws 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm a girl and I don't know but i have gotten turned on by nude pictures of women and lesbian porn but i don't know if i would actual want to give a women oral sex. u could go and ask someone about this like a professional( a person who sets and listens to ur problems and gets paid for it)
2007-03-13 18:24:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think that your body responds to males/shemales with arousal because that is your nature, while you feel repulsion/lack of desire because society makes homosexuality taboo. either you should use some sort of sexual therapy to make yourself less aroused to males (if you dont like it) or you should find a way to acept that you are aroused by the male body.
im not trying to attack you or accuse you of whatever, but i think that you are going to have to do something if you are unhappy the way you are. i like girls and boys, but i am more sexually aroused by guys..its no big deal for me because i dont mind being gay or bi or whatever. you know?
if you really dont want to be aroused, i think you should see a sex therapist. they will either help you accept it, or show you ways to become less aroused by men.. (often by having you snap a rubber band or something like that when you have sexual thoughts or become aroused.
i hope something of this helps
2007-03-13 19:15:50 · answer #3 · answered by lyrathefairie 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Maybe you do have a deep hidden desire to at least try it out with a man....
Or maybe its the fact that when you watch them you like how one is more in control...and the other is submissive...
2007-03-13 18:51:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
because you really do have the desire to have sex with another man.
2007-03-13 20:37:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're being attracted to the novelty of the new situation and it's permutations rather than the sexual act itself. Try cutting back on your intake of pornography, because you're getting desensitised.
2007-03-13 18:19:42 · answer #6 · answered by Testaco 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Your fear of the unknown makes you queezie, but there's a genuine interest/attraction.
It's normal to feel anxious or nervous about new situations.
2007-03-13 18:22:19 · answer #7 · answered by DEATH 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
welcome to the moden world LOL
2007-03-14 01:31:29 · answer #8 · answered by libramoonboy 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋