Im PREGNET!?

Question

Ay,
Last year (december) i had sex with my boyfriend and a couple of weeks later i was having a slumber party at my friends house and we were laughing about our boyfriends and we tried those pregnancy test as a joke and mine came up as positive but we all laughed and though it was a dodgy product.
The next day i was scared because i didnt know if i was or not so when my mum was out i went to the doctors and had a check up on it.
Later on i got the results and IM PREGNET!
How do i tell my mum? how do i tell my boyfriend? how do i tell my friends?
But how could this happen, he was wearing a comdom.
Im only 13 and scared stiffed........
PLEASE HELP!

Answer 1

Whatever, I don't believe you. No group of 13 year-olds spends money on pregnancy tests just for fun.

And no doctor would see a 13 year-old and confirm a pregnancy without contacting her parents.

Answer 2

Tslk to your mother or if you like talk to a sister of your's first. Don't hold out too long because you may regret not bringing it up. Hey you are at least 2or3 months now. People say abortions are bad but for you honey it's a chance you should take because you are so young. You should be thinking about school rather than boys. Hoe did you manage to be away to have sex at your age. Do your parents show you the attention that you are so desperately seeking? Please speak up before it's too late! If you want you can carry ithe baby and later put it up for adoption. Do something. This is no joke.

Answer 3

Just because you use a condom doesn't mean your safe from getting pregnant! I only had sex 1 time and used a condom and here I am 9 weeks pregnant! Crazy right? I am only 19 and in college. I broke it down to my mom first and then me and mom told my dad then it was time to tell my sister. My parent's are now super excited and can't wait for it to be born. Tell your parents that you did use protection! Maybe they will understand and see it like my parent's did ***Everything happens for a reason, a baby is a gift from God. God has given this baby to you for a reason and at this time for a reason*** I wish you best and good luck!

Answer 4

Sweetie you are already almost 4 months pregnant. You need to tell your mom as soon as possible as you cannot hide this forever. You also need her support and to discuss what you will do with the baby. Hopefully you will let someone adopt as there are lots of loving couples who would love and give your baby a wonderful home. You are too young to have a baby to be responsible for at your age. I wish you the best, and now go have that talk with mom. She will love you and help you get through this. Now you see why unmarried girls have no business having sex.

Answer 5

I will not preach to you, I think you will learn the consequences of your actions the hard way and for this I am sorry. However, all is not lost. If you are old enough to have sex you are old enough to talk about it. Tell your boyfriend first. Ask him to think about it and take some time in deciding on how to tell your parents. You need to be a united front, show you are being responsible, have a plan, but this is your and his decision on how to proceed with that life inside you. Once you tell parents, you will be influenced heavily on what is best for you. Take my advice, You have to live with your choice, abortion, adoption, keeping it. They don't have to live with that like you will. Do what is best for you. What is best for the child. The virgin Mary was not much older then you when God entrusted her with his only son. That baby is alive, it has a heartbeat, tiny hands and feet, and a soul. There are so many people out there who want a child and can't give them one and you could be the answer to their prayers. 13 is very young to raise a child. I did it at 18 and it was tough. I also had an abortion, the biggest heartache and regret of my life, please don't do this. I will pray for you. You are a good person, we all make bad choices, and condoms do break, but, the miracle inside you could be the most beautiful gift to a loving family who wants a child, and that is something everyone can live with. God bless.

Answer 6

Tell your mother first and see what happens from there. I honestly don't know how you should tell people but you should be more concerned about how you will take care of a baby. And I don't know how you got pregnant with a condom but just stay away from sex until you get older just to be safe. And I hate to sound preachy, but you don't need a boyfriend at 13! I know it seems like all of your friends have boyfriends and it seems all cute and makes you feel grown but you are too young. Keep your head in the books and have fun with your friends. Also keep your family close because at your age(s) (I'm assuming your bf is around your age) I seriously doubt if he will stick around to be with you and your baby.

Answer 7

Ok...calm down...clearly if you have to ask how this happened you should not have been having sex.

Now I am not sure how to tell your mom...but you have to. Too many things can go wrong during pregnancy that could be life threatening...get to a doctor and tell your mom soon. Besides that was December and now it is March...won't be long before you are showing if you are not already...then it will be obvious.

Answer 8

As a mother of twin girls the best advise I have for you is to be honest with your parents and tell them right away. The longer you wait the less options you have. You need to talk to your parents on how to tell your boyfriend. Be 100% honest with your folks. They may be upset and blame themselves but you need there love and guidance at this time.

Answer 9

The condom does not always work and as for telling them just ivnite them all over and tell them

Answer 10

at least you can teach your kid how to spell.

Its "pregnant"

Condoms break. Or it can seep out from the side. Keep the baby!

And Jesus loves you both.