2007-03-13 17:21:47 · 7 answers · asked by 9w2ayn 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Don't worry about what people think of u. They are just as worried about what u think of them.
Being a good listener is important because u pay more attention to others than urself when ur involved in their stories.
Pursue ur dreams and things u enjoy and u will meet people with like minds who appreciate those qualities.
If there is a personality trait that u don't like within urself or one that u'd like to have then concentrate on it and think of correcting or creating it each day, eventually it'll become natural to u.
Start a journal in which u write good comments or complements that u received from others and things u've done that ur proud of. When ur not feeling confident, read it, it will make u feel powerful.
Read empowering books from the well being/self help section of a library or book store and search for online articles on confidence.
2007-03-13 17:30:55 · answer #1 · answered by Gist 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to believe and trust yourself in whatever you do. Don't be hesitant and make yourself smart by learning from what sources you can to encounter any circumstances. On the whole, if you have ability to counter anything at any given circumstances then you are a perfect person nobody can challenge or overpower you. This way you have confidence in you.
2007-03-14 01:12:01 · answer #2 · answered by nimesh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always remember that you cannot love anyone else until you learn to love yourself. You have to feel comfortable in your own skin and feel happy with your path in life to be confident.
2007-03-14 00:24:06 · answer #3 · answered by Emily 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read Dale Carnegie's book How to Make Friends and Influence People. You can find it at the library.
2007-03-14 00:25:07 · answer #4 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
list all your strength and weakness. make plans on amending the weakness, and act on the plans, sooner or later, you will be a confident person.
2007-03-14 02:35:18 · answer #5 · answered by Caring Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a clipping from a magazine taped to my desk that reads:
I'm not too short, I'm not too tall
I'm not too big, I'm not too small
I'm not too shy, I'm not too bold
I'm not too young, I'm not too old
I'm not too thin, I'm not too fat
I'm not too this, I'm not too that
I'M FINE JUST THE WAY I AM!
Helps me alot.
2007-03-14 00:28:02 · answer #6 · answered by Katykins 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Picture everyone naked.
2007-03-14 00:24:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋