I haven't seen or made an effort to speak to an ex-friend who had conspired against me in a selfish manner over two years ago. During the ordeal I've made an exit in this person's life. I haven't seen or spoken to that person ever since. I'm somewhat known in my city, and since then I have dealt with atleast 20 third-partied people (that I don't even know) trying to do any form of damage and circulate slander about me. I know that all their connections lead to that one person two years ago.
I was recently out night on the town with my newer friends and I heard someone talking loudly, practically yelling from the sidewalk. I had taken a quick glimpse and saw that I was that of who I don't speak of. He was infuriated by my presence. I had acted like I didn't see or hear him to make him feel like a fool.
Other than stating it's jealousy. What drove him to be such a pessimist these years?
2007-03-13 17:02:08 · 7 answers · asked by cashew 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
You obviously meant a lot more to him than he meant to you. That's why he's so bitter. I don't blame you for wanting him out of your life...you have the right to surround yourself with people you can trust. But, it sounds like you're holding a bit of a grudge too.
Just ignore the guy. Eventually, he'll give up (unless he's got mental problems and then YOU CALL THE COPS). He wants you to cave in to him and probably won't leave you alone until you do.
2007-03-13 17:09:13 · answer #1 · answered by miri-miri-off-the-wall 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Unless you slept with this guy's wife, I can't think of anything worthy of this kind of contempt. He obviosly has serious mental problems. If you don't know why he's so angry - then forget trying to reason with him. He is probably a "Borderline Personality". Borderline Peronalities tend to think completely innocent people have wronged them and the will either cut them out of their life - or forever hate them. Sorry you have to deal with this. Maybe you should consider talking to a lawyer about slapping him with a "slander- lawsuit". That oughta shut the guy up if his medication won't.
2007-03-14 00:27:11 · answer #2 · answered by f w 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Some people are just stuck in time. If you can do so without making the problem worse, perhaps you could communicate something like this to him in a letter: What would it take for us (meaning him) to move on from this issue?
2007-03-14 00:07:38 · answer #3 · answered by Over The Rainbow 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Sounds to me like you made the right decision to move on. His jealously is because he hasn't been able to move on, and you on the other hand have not let it hold you back and make you bitter. It is just killing him because you will not play mind games with him. Be careful though, he sounds as if he really has some problems.
2007-03-14 00:06:39 · answer #4 · answered by Sparkles 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Becuase They Are Suicidal, And You Touch Yourself at Night...j/k Because They Are Insecure About Their Choices...And Very Ignorant When it comes to loving other people...they dont accept that people are human and make mistakes...
2007-03-14 00:05:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
You apparently deserve it. The only logical conclusion.
2007-03-14 00:05:03 · answer #6 · answered by johnny holmes 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
pain
2007-03-14 00:05:57 · answer #7 · answered by ? 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋