because of my past love.especially on bed i feel like killing myself.this is because of my past love.i still meet my ex secretly.but i cannot marry my ex either (i cannot tell u Y)my ex is also married.but we meet once in a week.But we can never marry.whenever i cry my ex tries to explain me that since we can never marry and can't live together we have to live like this.he doesn't force me to meet him.but its kind of like mutual understanding that we meet once a week.sometimes i cry so much thinking abt the whole situation.and also thinking what my ex would be doing with his wife.when ever we meet we will have sex.he kisses me and bites me all over my body and holds me tight for 30mnts and then he leaves.that said..does he still love me? i cannot live without seeing him..we were very close bfore our marriages..but now he is kind of busy with his life but he tries to meet atleast once a week.we don't talk like bfore on the phone. friends what should i do? continue secret affair.
2007-03-13 16:52:45 · 10 answers · asked by Rose B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
there is no future in secret 30 minute meetings once a week....get over it.......
2007-03-13 16:57:33 · answer #1 · answered by abc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing this is accomplishing is you hurting yourself. He is an ex...you need to cut loose and learn how to get over him. Meeting him weekly is not going to help the situation at all. If you loved this man you should not have married the man you are married to now. You are betraying him, and god forbid if he ever found out about any of this he will feel the same way you feel now. Because of the fact that you can not let go of this your selfishness has brought in at least two more people into this pain who do not deserve it.
2007-03-14 02:17:41 · answer #2 · answered by wintersimjp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
STOP IT NOW! You nothing to this man but a piece of *** and he love stringing you along! Grow up you need to tell your husband up front and be very honest with him, he has a right to know , and you might get an STD and then what? Your husband could file assault charges against you for endangering his life!Work on you, ad work on your marriage before you go down a road and never return!
2007-03-14 00:01:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im going to be brutally honest with you!!!! HE'S USING YOU AS A WHORE!!!! Im really sorry to say it that way; but thats exactally what hes doing. Secret 30 minute rondevous?!?!? Come on; youre the mistress. He doesnt love you, and even if by chance he did leave his wife for you; do you really think he wouldnt end up doing the same to you..... Once a cheater ALWAYS a cheater!!!!
Wake up and dump his sorry @$$
2007-03-14 00:05:20 · answer #4 · answered by the_syco_t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all you need to leave this man along he using you and
that not good. this nonsense is crazy if he cant be with you
then why is that you are meeting every week. second if
you are so unhappy with your marriage then be honest and
get out of it. you know that two wrong dont make it right
there are other people that will be effected by your actions.
2007-03-14 00:27:57 · answer #5 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should be ashamed...
when your husband finds out i hope he cuts you off at the knees.
i hope you get all that you deserve from him which is nothing. i hope he leaves you high and dry, pennyless and homeless because of your actions and you will deserve it...
shame on you!!!
2007-03-14 00:01:56 · answer #6 · answered by KRIS 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U will find happiness if u remain in one boat.
2007-03-14 00:47:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he wont leave his wife for you.... hes not worth having.... ur living in this fantasy world..... stop this and make ur own marriage work.... or u will end up with no one...
2007-03-14 00:31:14 · answer #8 · answered by gina B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, you are a whore
and people like you are the reason i don't want to get married, because thats all you are, a whore
2007-03-14 00:13:22 · answer #9 · answered by zether 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Trashy s*ut -- you deserve to be unhappy.
You and your slime boyfriend should rot.
2007-03-14 00:16:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋