This guy that I'm seeing is really cute and stuff but he's quite feminine in lots of ways too. The other day I went over to his place and when I arrived he was doing the ironing and the ironing board cover was a print of a naked guy on it... He was already aroused but I'm not sure whether it was the ironing of the naked guy that was doing it for him... Either way we had some great steamy sex but I am curious...!
2007-03-13 16:42:24 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I think hes bi
2007-03-13 16:44:39 · answer #1 · answered by ænima 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if he's having sex with you (and i'm assuming you're female...you never said), then he's not gay. he might be bisexual.
are you saying that you think he's gay because he's ironing or that he's gay because there's a gay guy on the ironing board? cuz, you know, guys CAN iron. ironing is not something that females are programmed to do.
just because a guy has 'feminine' qualities does not make him gay. society is what decides what is 'feminine' and what is 'masculine'. you're best bet would be to ask him what his preferences are, instead of trying to judge him by these little 'signs' you think you're finding.
2007-03-13 17:31:50 · answer #2 · answered by simple 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys do iron ,believe it or not, (mine doesn't) unless the ironing board cover was new I can't see him getting aroused from it
2007-03-13 16:50:33 · answer #3 · answered by snowluk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The way I see it, you got three options:
1. enjoy the steamy sex, and wait for your relationship to reach the level of comfort to where you can ask that question.
2. hurry up and ask him right now, and make him feel really self-conscious about the sex, making it less satisfying for the both of you.
3. try to find out in sneaky ways, risking him finding out you are not trustworthy, thereby losing the steamy sex for good.
2007-03-13 16:47:58 · answer #4 · answered by the guru 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok..I know that everyone else has covered the obvious..he is probably bi, ask him..blah blah blah but here is what I want to know...Who the heck makes ironing board covers with naked people on them? Random...
2007-03-13 19:42:06 · answer #5 · answered by myview 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either he's gay and using you for cover, or he's bi and likes you and the ironing board, OR he's straight and his gay friend gave him that ironing board.
2007-03-13 16:45:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the fact that you two had great steamy sex is pretty indicative that he likes sausage.
2007-03-13 16:52:11 · answer #7 · answered by dementors_suck 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's no way for people that have never met him to know if he's gay. Actually, there's no way of you knowing until he tells you, or you catch him in bed with another man. If he is gay, he'll tell you when he's ready. Maybe he hasn't even figured it out for himself yet.
2007-03-13 16:47:07 · answer #8 · answered by meghanhappy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well perhaps bi, perhaps just easily aroused and also semi-metrosexual.
(But.. um.. you think it may have been the IRONING that got him aroused? That may be an issue....)
2007-03-13 16:49:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol.. well i could be bi. and well if he lives alone... then he has to do the ironing or if he lives with other pple thats his "chores" or sumthing. but he's having sex with u and enjoying it then i would think hes not gay.
2007-03-13 16:59:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if he's got nicely ironed clothes, he may be a metrosexual.
2007-03-13 17:02:24 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋