I think the media has society in the palm of it's hand. There aren't too many people who think for themselves in this day and age. The media has it's standard of beauty and everyone just agrees for some reason.
It's like if you don't look like this, wear this, talk like this, something is wrong with YOU. There are so many people CONFORMING to this 'standard' which is just ridiculous because women are individiuals, NOT an object so therefore we come in different shapes, colors and sizes. If everyone could just accept everyone for who they are, society as a whole would be moving in the right direction.
So, women: is it hard for you to maintain a healthy self-image in this superficial world?
2007-03-13 16:23:24 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Other - Social Science
No, I know who I am, what I am capable of doing and I do not deviate from what I believe
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2007-03-13 16:28:17 · answer #1 · answered by Carlene W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, No and NO. In fact, I get all het up about it, then I correct my self and my thinking. I can't change the pablum being fed to everyone who listens. What I can change is me. I quit watching TV. Don't buy fashion mags, and believe me, I am good looking, used to model. I feel unfortunately that young women are acting very stupid putting so much credence into the crap they are fed. If a person can't think past make up and Manolo Blahniks, then it is sad. Maybe they grow out of it. Nice to hear you say that young lady, it looks like there is hope for future generations! And remember, it is your choice whether or not to read the mag, watch the show, engage in the coversation, etc. Always YOUR choice. Good luck!
2007-03-14 05:57:38 · answer #2 · answered by Life's a journey.... 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My self-image isn't wrapped up in my appearance altho I try to look as nice as I can. My self-image is based upon what I am as a person; e.g. integrity, loyalness, intelligence, hard-working, whatever good qualities I have. I try not to dwell on my faults unless I can change them.
But I agree with you. The media is responsible for making young women unsure of themselves if they aren't beautiful & slim, well-dressed, have gorgeous skin & hair and last but not least - boobs; the bigger the better. Not too mention that the popular TV shows foster a lifestyle which is pretty hedonistic. Other countries must have a terrible image of our morals based upon our TV programs.
2007-03-14 00:39:04 · answer #3 · answered by Judith 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As long as you set goals for your self and put your mind in to achieve them with out letting the outside world telling if u can or not you can maintain a healthy self image. Remember that people are just as insecure as u are. We are afraid from the unknown just like every body else
2007-03-13 23:30:02 · answer #4 · answered by girly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is, but I think that it is the responsibility of women my age--38--to pass on the ideal that aging is not the worst thing in the world, to the next generation.
I think it is difficult to age and be OK, with it, so much pressure is put on being young, or looking younger than you are.
I want to be healthy and smart and look good for who I am.
I am very conscience of what I look like, but I don't want plastic surgery, I think it makes people look creepy, I want to look like a sexy woman my age.
I eat well and I am a runner, but that is more for feeling good than looking good anymore.
I try to be a realistic role model to young women I know.
2007-03-14 01:13:47 · answer #5 · answered by smp1969 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let me tell you it gets easier as you get older. It is agreaet feeling to hit forty and wear what you like, say what you really feel. By then you know what suits you and are unwilling to put up with a lot of fashion crap, everything comes into perspective and you know waht is really important. I wish I had that attitude at twenty it would have saved a lot of heartache. So for you...you have a lot to look forward to.
2007-03-13 23:34:01 · answer #6 · answered by beachloveric 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Of course it is. My advice is to not look at the magazines... it can be extremely unhealthy....and learn to say no .
Be proud of who you are and develop your inner strengths and your own talents... beauty fades... and you can't trade on looks for ever. Look the world in the eye and remember that this is your world too.
Confidence is more attractive than anything else!
2007-03-14 06:16:19 · answer #7 · answered by bronze b 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely!
2007-03-13 23:28:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
YES. it is for everybody. you might not even do it intentionally but if you hang with people like that, you have trouble being yourself. 'unique is beautiful' is true. 'variety is the spice of life'. why would anyone want to be the same? but it happens.
2007-03-13 23:29:51 · answer #9 · answered by that_cool_chic 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no
you are being brain-washed
about women being brain-washed
female leaders
politics/industry
do not reflect the
supposed
madison ave. standard
but,
what's WRONG
w/women trying to
"look" their prettiest?
don't let people tell you
that when women
choose to
"improve" their appearance
that they are demeaning themselves
2007-03-13 23:38:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋