English Deutsch Français Italiano Español Português 繁體中文 Bahasa Indonesia Tiếng Việt ภาษาไทย
All categories

Consider this scenario and please post your views. Thank you.
An 18 year old girl has a certain disability and her parents are worried because she is too friendly and places enormous trust on strangers. They have suggested to their physician about the possibility of the girl undergoing hysterectomy "just to be safe" as in preventing the girl from being exploited by strangers and possibly getting pregnant.
What do you think about their suggestion?

2007-03-13 16:03:43 · 16 answers · asked by Anjali 3 in Health Women's Health

16 answers

It would be a tough call. It would all depend on the situation & how disabled the girl is. Yes, it is good to teach her to protect herself & be in the protection of caretakers.
However, I would have her get a tubal ligation.

2007-03-13 16:31:11 · answer #1 · answered by Fraulein 7 · 2 0

that's plenty too drastic a level, no rely what the incapacity. i'm undecided of the area, yet maybe she needs to verify to no longer be so trusting of strangers. i might say the main secure wager is a contraceptive implant for now. they are innocuous and can be taken out at every time the girl needs. She IS an person regardless of each thing, no rely what her case may well be. decrease than the courtroom, she is able to make her very own judgements and can combat this determination of a hysterectomy if her mothers and fathers opt for to bypass via with it. Receiving a hysterectomy could positioned her into early menopause/warm flashes, that's some thing that isn't could desire to be dealt with to boot to the incapacity. appears like the whole kinfolk (or a minimum of the mothers and fathers) choose some counseling in this subject. A hysterectomy is WAYY too drastic a level.

2016-10-02 02:11:31 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

This has happened already recently with a 10 year old girl. The parents had her breast tissue removed and a hysterectomy done on her. It also has made the girl remain small and not grow anymore. At first I had a problem with it but when I read more on it I can understand the reason behind all of this. It is easier to take care of them if they are disabled and it cuts down on possible sexual abuse by caregivers. I think that each case would have to be decided on a case by case basis but it would be a tough call.

2007-03-13 16:20:36 · answer #3 · answered by mom of twins 6 · 0 0

NO.

She will still NOT be safe even with an hysterectomy. She can still get AIDS and other STDs.

The best answer is teaching the girl. A child CAN be taught about how to handle strangers, SO CAN SHE. I have seen disabled teenage girls learn right from wrong.

Her parents should be sterilized themselves for even thinking of such an idea.

2007-03-13 16:34:46 · answer #4 · answered by Nancy 6 · 0 1

It really is a tough thing to have to think about. I am the mother of an almost 9 year old mentally handicapped child...she has the mental capacity of a 12-18 month old. In my own way I think it's cruel to tamper with nature (and God) and have someone permanently "altered", however my child and others like her have no ability to say no or to fight or to even understand what's happening if someone were to take advantage of them. My daughter will probably live with me for the rest of my life but it is still impossible to be with your child 24/7. I mean she attends special ed school what if someone there took advantage, or someone in a medical setting did it. I don't even use respite care to get a break b/c I'm SO afraid that something will happen to her and she won't be able to tell me...But I don't think I will ever have her "altered" that way medically...

2007-03-13 16:17:09 · answer #5 · answered by Proud Mommy of 6 6 · 2 0

i think it depends on how severely disabled she is. the girl on the news was never going to even be able to walk or move, and would always have the brain of a newborn. could not even feed herself or hold her head up. as horrible as it sounds i think it was ok in that circumstance, its extreme but imagine the frustration of a period. but thats besides the point.

it sounds like this girl is not THAT disabled. and i disagree with the person that first posted, saying to just teach her right from wrong. lets say someone is autistic or has downs syndrome...it would be very difficult to just teach that kind of social awareness for someone that wouldnt necessarily understand the concept. birth control pills would do the trick also, but then theres making her take the pills everyday. i wouldnt take away her ability to conceive because she sounds relatively high-functioning, and might be able to have one in the future, with the support and help from her family of course. so in this circumstance, no, i wouldnt agree with it.

2007-03-13 16:31:12 · answer #6 · answered by SweetDarlin' 3 · 0 0

I saw this on the news a few weeks ago.

I think it's a terrible tragedy when the parents decide for their daughter her reproductive rights. Although she most likely could never have children, taking away those rights because of her disability, even a mental disability, is not appropriate in ANY situation.

By giving her a hysterectomy, they are denying her rights as a woman to reproduce. She is, even disabled, a woman.

2007-03-13 16:09:12 · answer #7 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 1 2

That is a little intense. If they are that concerned there is birth control or surgical sterilization... tying of the tubes. Hysterectomies are drastic in a young woman and would cause many other kinds of health issues for her to contend with. I would think it was very unethical.

2007-03-13 21:12:50 · answer #8 · answered by No More 7 · 0 0

No way - a hysterectomy causes women to go in to menopause early - if your body is not ready for menopause - it can cause some major psychological problems. I agree with just having a tubal litigation, it would be the safest bet.

Piper

2007-03-13 16:49:22 · answer #9 · answered by pipesean 2 · 0 0

If pregnancy is the only issue, tube tying may be sufficient. If menstrual hygiene is an issue, though hysterectomy may be appropriate. Obviously competent professionals must be consulted but I can tell you for sure that it is done in certain cases.

2007-03-13 16:25:09 · answer #10 · answered by lillyth17 3 · 0 0

fedest.com, questions and answers