2007-03-13 15:39:32 · 22 answers · asked by Katie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
well, first off you aren't divorced yet, which means you are still married which mean you haven't even spent the time necessary for you to figure out why you picked a husband that you are incompatible with.....until you do that, you will just pick another one just like him.
2007-03-13 15:43:11 · answer #1 · answered by abc 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
How do you meet new guys, that's easy. Go out and enjoy yourself. Get involve in things you like to do and you might find the right one that will come to you. Don't go to the guy let him come to you first. Than you will know if he wants you or not. I wouldn't be depending on match.com for a guy though.
2007-03-13 23:39:51 · answer #2 · answered by Theresa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After our school day, we always find it difficult to get to know opposite sex. And I find it easier to meet the other half by having some activities, or learning together. People in match.com is not "real". You have to keep meeting up with these "stranger" to find the right one, as most don't tell the truth of themselves in the web. Try to take up some course, take up some leisure lesson or join tour groups, this is the best way to know more people.
2007-03-13 22:57:55 · answer #3 · answered by Tan D 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all... wait before venturing out so that you don't take your damaged "self" into the world and punish or superimpose your divorce and marital discords on the next guy. Good wait time is 2-3 months for every year of marriage, if you want to heal and be able to love honestly again.
Match, like E-Harmony and Yahoo personals is just a hook-up site, a place to "interview" prospects before "buying." They plug you into a funneling system and after dating a bunch of guys you begin to see which ones and what qualities really work for you. Once on one of these sites, things will flow naturally and you'll know what to do. But once again, be together yourself before you seriously seek another. dating around is OK: getting serious too soon can backfire!
2007-03-13 22:46:14 · answer #4 · answered by Wisdom??? 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have been through two divorces and after the crying around. I finally went out with one of my friends and I meet a guy that was interested we talked and after a few weeks I got over even going through the divorce.
2007-03-13 22:44:15 · answer #5 · answered by april h 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all wait until your divorce is final before even wanting to look and make sure it is not on the rebound when you find someone either. Yes there are plenty of men on match.com just like there is on eharmony.com but make sure you are ready for a new relationship before even beginning to look hon is all i am saying. You are not even divorced yet.
2007-03-13 22:45:52 · answer #6 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
match.com is a good place to meet men and i am sure there are other single websites available.
2007-03-13 22:59:14 · answer #7 · answered by bubba 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
are you looking for a serious relationship or just someone to hang out with? there is eharmony.com but i believe that one is expensive. i used www.adultfriendfinder.com. i found my current boyfriend there, we've been together almost 2 years. a lot of places have singles dances or speed dating, kinda cheesy but a good way to meet people. GOOD LUCK
2007-03-13 22:44:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
yup, there are alot of maniacs on match.com
there are also alot of maniacs at your local grovery store that are trying to figure out how to make a tv dinner without burning the house down
oh wait, thats just me
2007-03-13 23:13:41 · answer #9 · answered by zether 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its hard to find someone online who is really truthful... Like some said, some are perverts and some are insincere... only a few are really truthful... However, no harm knowing more about them right...?
2007-03-13 23:13:09 · answer #10 · answered by porridge0000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋