If there are major communication and trust issues in the relationship and he is not willing to work them out, and she is not treated with basic respect and etc etc a friendship is barely functioning etc etc... wouldn't it be right that the man would just say (and before too long) - he wants out??? There are women out there who want closure rather than bad treatment, that is fair isnt it? Why dont men speak up sooner when they are not happy? Who's responsibility is it anyway???
2007-03-13 15:18:29 · 6 answers · asked by dorcas_3210 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i would make sure that you both agree on it before it gets any worst if one is not happy then why would you bring down your partner or else try to work it out also if that doesn't work out then agree on something that will work for both of you guys.
2007-03-13 15:24:04 · answer #1 · answered by lilmnshorty2006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is our own responsibility to make ourselves happy, happiness is a choice. Happiness is not someone else's responsibility. If the man isn't willing to work things out, then he's probably had enough. Sometimes people don't want out, they want to work things out. If you want to be treated well, then you need to treat your spouse well. It pisses me off when women demand respect when they treat their spouses like crap. It's the responsibility of the person that wants out to initiate it.
2007-03-13 15:29:17 · answer #2 · answered by SillyKimmie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is the responisibility of whoever felt the "un-attached" feeling" first. It could be either of them. i had a boyfriend once, wherein he was madly inlove with me, but I just felt that he wasnt mature enough for me and not ready for the kind of a deep relationship that I wanted. He had no clue I was feeling this way, He thought everything was ok. I broke it up with him, coz it was my responsibility to be honest with him. If one party feels a certain way, then they have to communicate that feeling.
2007-03-13 15:28:59 · answer #3 · answered by Vicky S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wtf..
just because he isn't happy doesnt meanit has to end.
teenage relationships are like this because both the guy and girl don't know how to work out problems.
girls are so self centered. they think every thing is revolved around them. especially you in this case. you think that just because he is not happy that he is not happy with you.
he has a life and his problems too.
what the hell..........
2007-03-13 15:23:26 · answer #4 · answered by John Becker 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if either side realizes that it isn't working and truly isn't a good relationship for them to be in, it's their responsability to tell the other person
2007-03-13 15:23:21 · answer #5 · answered by KatieBee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he should say it!
2007-03-13 15:27:26 · answer #6 · answered by kat_luvr2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋