Ok.. here's the situation... Currently, I have a girlfriend who 'sticks' alot with me. Whenever I like to go out with friends or what, she will want follow me. If not, she will want me to mms or even 3G her, in order to know that I'm with a guy friend instead of girl friend. I told her I need some 'air' and a bit of freedom... She throws me a question which I'm unable to choose... Any1 can help...? The question is...
1) To choose Freedom, we break up.... OR
2) To continue relationship with her, but I can't go out with friends...
I do love her alot... and don't wish to lose her... But still I need friends too... How to let her know I need friend and her... On some occasion, I'm able to bring her out together with friends, but on certain occassion, I can't... Need help plz...
2007-03-13 15:18:15 · 2 answers · asked by porridge0000 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
in all honesty she needs to lighten up. can she go out with her friends without you doing what she is doing? i am betting you do let her without doing all that. if she can have friends so can you. she needs to learn to trust you and handle the relationship in a grown up manner. i know you don't want to lose her but if it's going to make you lose your friends then i would say freedom. friends are there forever... never give up your friends cuz if you do then you have to get new ones and that takes a while....life is too short to start the friend thing over and over again because she can't trust you for whatever reason.
2007-03-13 15:24:36 · answer #1 · answered by cowgirlclub 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody needs a relationship where one person has to control the other person by these kind of threats. If you can not talk this over you would be better off out of the relationship.
2007-03-13 22:29:26 · answer #2 · answered by lightperson 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋