im 15 and i really really definetly like girls....but theres this one kid i know thats the same gender who i ave sexual thoughts about and another a year ago... i dont know if its cause of how they act or if they resemble a girl i like, but im scared and i only want to be straight!
please help!
2007-03-13 15:15:08 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Some people have occasional sexual thoughts about people of the same sex, and then they go away. Other people are actually bisexual. Partly it's a matter of how you want to define yourself, but partly it's a matter of what you feel.
What do you feel? Is it just this one kid? Or do you ever fantasise about other men?
Either way, it's not a problem. Why do you want to be straight anyway?
2007-03-14 10:19:18 · answer #1 · answered by garik 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Right now, you're in the curious stage. With time, things will all sort out and you'll realize that you are either straight, bi, or even gay. If you turn out to be bi or gay, don't be ashamed, scared or regretful. It's a normal thing that a lot of people go through.
It's easier to be out than to stay closeted, for future reference. Good luck. =]
2007-03-13 15:21:02 · answer #2 · answered by Renee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you're in luck with my advice
having thoughts about one guy doesn't make you bi, it can however make you curious since your 15 your body is going through changes
and also, if you only want to be straight and turn out to be bi... then only date girls that simple
any more advice (which I'm sure I can do better with details) IM me, my yahoo is jedilounge1
2007-03-13 15:20:56 · answer #3 · answered by jedilounge1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some people are not defined by sexual preference they fall in love with A person regardless
2007-03-13 16:34:24 · answer #4 · answered by snowluk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know where you stand with God, but these thoughts are of satan and you can't give into them. Pray and ask for God to bind satans power over you in these areas. God bless
2007-03-13 15:28:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋
Not many guys are Bi...
Lots of girls are Bi...
2007-03-13 15:29:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋