hey guys. there are some girls in my school who say i have no friends and all and some girls spread some stupid rumor about me cheating on a really important test and all....that part im not too worried about. but the girl who said i had no social life, i thought that was really mean to say, plus she doesnt even know me which hurts me even more when she said that..she gives everyone dirty looks all the time. i dont know if its for fun or what..but it really bothers me...and even if i try to talk it out with her or tell her how i feel..it would be pointless because then she'll tell everyone about this all and embarrass me even more. she is really bugging me right now and ruining my day and week...can anyone help me with this? we are doing testing right now and right now, i am in her testing period with 5 other girls...whom i dont talk to much either because they all know each other very well, and dont really know me..also they arent too much of my type to talk to...can some1 plz help?
2007-03-13 15:08:25 · 2 answers · asked by desiladki 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
who cares about those girls. they are no lifes. they go home and cry at night because they talk poop about people and know its true about them.
they have no real friends.
you dont have to have a billion friends. just have one or two close friends. thats ALL you need. because if you can trust one person, they will always be there for you. you don't need the crap from other people. they don't matter to you.
just have one good friend to start with. you can end up having a small group of friends and those are always comforting. don't be part of the h0es
2007-03-13 15:11:13 · answer #1 · answered by John Becker 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just remember, when someone is putting another person down, it's usually because a.) they don't like them self very much, so they somehow think by putting someone else down, it elevates them, and b.) they may be jealous of something, and it rears it's ugly head by coming out as a put-down. Girls can be SO catty, and it's just silly. If you are a nice person, you don't have a thing to prove to this trash-talker. As hard as it might be to do, don't let her know she gets to you! don't tell your other friends, don't even allow yourself to worry about negative people like that. Stay focused on WHY you are there, (to learn) and just smile and say "Hi, how ya doin?" This troublemaker won't know what to say or do! She will definitely know she didn't and can't get to you. Good luck dear.
2007-03-13 22:30:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋